Hear a case and share it here.
The woman's family does real estate, and her family background is very good.
The man was not very lucky. Mom is a gambler, and Dad doesn't care about the family much. The man has always been very diligent and hardworking, and through his own efforts, he has achieved very good results in his studies. Graduated from University of Science and Technology of China. After graduation, he married the woman. Because the woman's family background is good, she pays for the man to build a house, and it can be said that the woman gives more. After marriage, both parties raised a child, a boy, but unfortunately, the boy was born with autism.
Later, the man cheated, and the cheating object was a ** lady. The man knows about it, he doesn't mind and pays for the cheating partner without reservation. It's not stingy to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to buy jewelry for each other. Around the same time, the woman's real estate company went bankrupt. Unfortunately, the child got sick and needed to be hospitalized**. At this time, the woman asked the man for 5,000 yuan for hospitalization, but the man was unwilling to pay.
The woman was very angry and did not understand the man. may see this, everyone doesn't quite understand why the man is like this, don't let go of a good lover, cheat, the object is still Miss **, and his own children are not saved.
But if you analyze the subconscious, you will understand that everything is a subconscious need. The incident of Wu Xie Yu was mentioned before. No matter how outrageous Wu Xie Yu is, he is just trying to survive, although he is highly educated and has excellent appearance and learning, but his subconscious is deeply unworthy. This is the case with the man in this case, his family of origin is very unbearable, so his subconscious has a deep sense of shame. This sense of shame made him feel that he and Miss ** were the ones who went all the way (this is the same as Wu Xie Yu going to a nightclub after killing his mother).
Why not save your own children?
Because that child is the most unbearable self. He hated himself and projected that hatred onto the child. It can be said that his subconscious is full of two words: destruction. Destroy yourself, your children, your family.
Does the woman have similar subconscious needs, I guess there is, she has paid so much for her husband, whether it is money or emotion, but in the end she dare not leave the other party. Isn't that a sign of lack of strength?
After all, breaking up and divorce are both abilities. It is not surprising that two destructive people were born with autistic children.
In fact, everyone's subconscious has some or less destructive beliefs, and these beliefs will attract all kinds of things, such as those things that happen frequently and make people feel very unlucky.
At this time, we should be more aware and see if there is a force of faith that invisibly affects you and makes you always in difficulty. 