When a divorced man and his ex-wife meet again, their inner feelings are quite complicated, mixed with contradictions, confusion and emotional entanglements. Nowadays, divorce is becoming more and more common, and I will delve into the real state of mind of divorced men when they see their ex-wives again.
Through interviews with 7 divorced men, we found that they all have different feelings:
1.Pain and depression: Some men have been hurt in the divorce process, and when they reunite with their ex-wives, the pain and sorrow of the past will be revived. They may feel remorse for past decisions, experience tremendous psychological pressure, and even develop violent tendencies.
2.Relief and excitement: This type of man usually has a new relationship after the divorce, and they see their ex-wife as part of the past and do not want to have anything to do with it. As a result, when they say goodbye to their ex-wives, they may behave as cold and unfeeling.
3.Regret impulses: After calming down, some men may wish to remarry. They suffer from the ambivalence of having mixed feelings for their ex-wife, who want to redeem them and fear repeating their mistakes.
4.Anger and revenge: Some men may resort to aggressive behavior, blaming their ex-wives for their failures or maintaining their self-esteem through indifference.
How a divorced man feels about seeing his ex-wife again varies from person to person, depending on personal experience, marital status, and emotional state.
How to deal with a relationship with an ex-wife is not an easy task for divorced men, advice:
1.Keep a moderate distance: Now that you're divorced, keeping a distance can help protect your personal space and provide opportunities for both parties to adjust to their new lives.
2.Focus on your needs: As the pain of divorce takes time to heal, it's important to focus on your own needs and seek counseling or other support.
3.Avoid conflict: Even though the relationship is no longer in place, try to avoid conflict and maintain friendship, which is beneficial to both parties.
4.Respect the other person's feelings: The ex-wife may have been experiencing the same pain, respect her feelings and avoid interfering in her life.
5.Give time: It takes time to deal with your relationship with your ex-wife, and don't force yourself to forget or rebuild the relationship right away.
In this era of high divorce rates, how to maintain marriage has become a problem that every couple needs to face, and the following points are crucial:
1.Learn to communicate effectively: Good communication is the cornerstone of marriage, and couples should communicate openly and respectfully with each other's opinions.
2.Shared responsibility: Family responsibilities and financial pressures need to be shared, supported by each other, and working together to get through difficult times.
3.Enhance personal charm: Maintain a good image and inner qualities, enhance each other's attractiveness, and make the marriage better.
4.Focus on interaction: often participate in activities together to enhance relationships and understand each other's needs.
5.Continuous learning and growth: Keep learning, adapt to changes, improve your abilities, and inject vitality into your marriage.
Goodbye to an ex-wife is a special emotional experience that divorced men need to face. Understanding these feelings can help them cope better. At the same time, we should also recognize that divorce is not the end, but a new beginning. We must be brave enough to face the past, embrace the future positively, and make ourselves stronger and more confident. Sustaining a marriage requires both parties to work together to make the marriage stronger and more satisfying through communication, sharing, enhancing charm, interaction, and learning and growth.