The highest rank of a girl is not that the other party does not take the initiative, and you do not take the initiative, but that you want to take the initiative, you don't want to take the initiative, you don't take the initiative, as for whether the other party takes the initiative or not, it doesn't matter, you take the initiative only means that you are willing, only care about your own feelings and preferences, do not affect your emotions because of other people's attitudes and reflections, and only follow your own inner voice.
Girls with strong action are really powerful, do what they want to do immediately, do not hesitate, do not entangle, do not have internal friction, make decisions about everything, do not wait passively, and are not affected by the opinions of others.
As long as you put yourself in the most central position, everything is towards your own goal to achieve, you are ruthless, you can control your emotions, then whether you take the initiative or not, in the end, it will be your own benefit.
On the other hand, if you always think that taking the initiative to speak will drop the price, and always look forward to the other party taking the initiative, then even if you look cold on the surface, you are actually pinched by the other party, but you are consuming yourself internally.
We must take the initiative to initiate an impact on the world and life, and whether the result is good or bad, we will reap the growth that belongs only to us.
If you think more from your own interests, over time, you will become smarter and smoother, and resources will be closer to you, on the contrary, from the perspective of feelings, you will become more and more stupid.