My mother-in-law told me yesterday, "When I die, don't buy me a shroud, it's too ugly, it's scary to look at, and I don't like it." When the time comes, just put on the red cheongsam I wore when you got married. ”
Don't waste that money to buy a cemetery, you can't afford to spend hundreds of thousands. After the cremation is completed, find a plastic bag, find a tree root to bury, or raise a small river ditch. ”
I've always liked simplicity and didn't want to bother others. It's best to be so simple, and when the time comes, you won't have to worry about it, and I can rest assured. ”
Listening to my mother-in-law's words, I was shocked and distressed. I am dead, and I am still thinking about my children.
I said, "You can think about it, what do outsiders think of such a confused fool?" We don't want to be children in our hearts! “
The mother-in-law smiled and said, "What do you want to do so much?" People die like lights go out, it's not even as good as a mess of mud, it's not easy to make money now, what's the use of spending that useless money for a dead person? It is much more practical to be filial when you are alive than to do those procedures for others to see after you die."
People are gone, that is, children can think of you occasionally, let alone grandchildren in the future.
When you are alive, you should eat, drink, play, and have fun, and as soon as you close your eyes, there will be no more you in this world. What do you care about in the future?
I suddenly felt that what my mother-in-law said made sense, when people are alive, they are more filial, and it is a hundred times stronger than doing some formalism to outsiders after they die.
Netizens, what do you say?