Set an example of filial piety and mention filial piety

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-02-04

*Excerpt from "The Essentials of Collective WritingFilial pietyEpisode 5

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Do not be merciful with kindness, I will forgive myself". Don't think that you are better than others because your parents are very kind and don't care about us, and don't think that the world is too thin, I am better than others."

Especially now that many TVs have also played some bad negative roles. often puts those children who are unfilial to their parents and brothers because of property disputes on the screen, and over time makes the audience and the audience feel that many people in the world do not support their parents, so I don't know how many times better I can support my parents than those people do.

In fact, when we look at the stories of the ancients who served their parents, we will feel very ashamed. We should conceal the evil and promote the good, and we should often tell the stories of honoring our parents and loving our brothers, so that we can raise people's filial piety.

One of Confucius's ** is called Zilu. We know that "Zilu is brave". Once this sub-road came to see Confucius and said something like this. He said, "When I used to serve my parents, I ate very simple foods such as bean leaves, and I had to travel hundreds of miles to carry rice for my parents." Because he is very filial to his parents, he can't let his parents eat as simple as himself, although the family is very poor, he eats simple food made of bean leaves, but he has to go hundreds of miles away to carry rice for his parents, no matter whether it is cold or hot, he insists on it.

After his parents passed away, he traveled to Chu State, followed by hundreds of cars, and had a lot of entourage, and he enjoyed a lot of money. But he said, "Although I want to eat quinoa, I can't get rice for my relatives." Although he eats delicacies from the mountains and seas, and there are many followers and followers, he still thinks that he will no longer have this opportunity to carry food and rice for his parents hundreds of miles away as before, because his parents have passed away.

After hearing this, Confucius said, "From the relatives to the family, it can be said that the person who does his best in life and thinks about everything in death." "Saying that Zilu serves his parents, it can be said that when his parents are alive, he can do his best to support his parents. After the death of my parents, I can still miss my parents and have the affection of missing my parents. It's not that when my parents pass away, I feel that I have no burden and am liberated all of a sudden, but I still think about the kindness of my parents all the time.

In the three years after the death of their parents, the ancients often missed their parents. When I think about it, my parents are still very sad. This is what the "** Rules" said "mourn for three years, often grief", which is the filial piety that should be fulfilled for children.

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