Broken defense! In Shandong, a woman married for three years and returned to her parents' home for the first time. When she was joking with her sister-in-law, the two had a few words, and as a result, her mother jokingly said to her sister-in-law, "If you don't let her come, she has to come." Unexpectedly, the speaker was unintentional, the listener was intentional, and after the woman listened, she instantly shed tears, packed up her things and was about to leave.
The woman married in Shandong that year and was married for 3 years, and she has been celebrating the New Year at her in-law's house. So, this year, she discussed with her husband that she wanted to go back to her parents' house for the New Year, and after hearing this, her husband immediately agreed, and was willing to go back with her.
In this way, after they packed their things, they went back to their parents' house. The woman's parents were very happy to see them come back and hurried to prepare a sumptuous meal, while the woman's brother and sister-in-law also rushed over when they learned that they were back, and the family got together to talk and laugh, which was very warm and lively.
As a result, when the woman and her sister-in-law were playing, the two had a few words. Then, the woman's mother jokingly said to her sister-in-law, "No way, don't let her come, she has to come." Unexpectedly, when the woman heard such words, tears flowed down instantly, and she packed her things and was about to leave.
The family quickly stopped her, saying that it was a joke and asked the woman not to take it seriously. However, the woman said that the speaker was unintentional, but the listener was intentional, although she knew that it was a joke, but she still felt wronged in her heart, which made her feel that she should not come back, as if she was no longer a family member.
This incident once aroused everyone's attention and discussion, and netizens expressed their opinions after reading it.
Some netizens said: I can understand that kind of taste, my mother-in-law's family is not home, and my mother's family is not home. On the day of the wedding, many rules left by our ancestors reminded us that we were outsiders over and over again, but when our mother's family had something, they left a lot of rules to tell us that our mother's family is also home.
Some netizens said: It's really not that this woman thinks too much, people who don't marry far away won't understand at all, when they go back to their parents' home, they will indeed have a feeling of being under the fence, obviously it was also their own home in the past. Therefore, I can understand why the woman reacted so much when she heard this unintentional remark.
Some netizens said: In fact, if I can, I would rather not go back to my mother's house or my mother-in-law's house for the New Year, just cook a Chinese New Year's Eve meal with my husband and children in my own home, and then go out for a walk after eating.
We always say that peace of mind is home. In fact, for parents, their peace of mind is that their daughters who marry far away can go home during the Chinese New Year and accompany them more. And for every woman who marries far away: it's not that they don't want to go home, but they can't; It's not that they don't love the New Year, but they are afraid of the New Year.
You must know that this woman who marries far away can go back to her parents' home for the New Year, which is already considered lucky, and there are many women who marry far away, because of children, because of work, because of life, because of various reasons, it is basically difficult to have the opportunity to return to her parents' home. Even if he really had the opportunity to go back to his parents' home for the New Year, his longing for his parents had not completely subsided, and he stepped on the return train.
And the gray hairs on the parents' heads and the increased wrinkles on their faces have become irreparable regrets in the hearts of every daughter who marries far away. Therefore, they are most afraid of the New Year, and they are most looking forward to the New Year. But what I want to say is that even if you are far away from the world, even if you are thousands of miles away, you must always go home to see. Because for parents, no matter what day it is, the day you go home is the New Year.
What do you think about this?