The "Dink" marriage tide is coming! The blind date conditions are outrageous, and the woman gets straight to the point: "I want to dink, don't waste time if you can't accept it!" "The status quo of blind dates is ridiculous, is it looking for a partner or hiring labor? The degree of outrageousness is really puzzling.
The girl put forward the following conditions:
Tell parents directly that we don't plan to have children.
Conclude a prenuptial agreement.
To undergo a premarital check-up, you will need to undergo a sterilization procedure.
After marriage, your salary will be managed by me.
We lived separately from our parents.
Housework must be shared.
The prenuptial agreement includes:
Both parties voluntarily refrain from having children.
The man cannot claim a refund of the bride price or any compensation because the woman is not giving birth.
If the man cheats, has an illegitimate child, domestic violence, regrets not having children, and forces the woman to become pregnant, it will lead to the end of the marriage and the man will not enjoy any property.
The man asked a question: what to do when you are old?
The woman replied that there would not be much of a problem when she was old and rich, and the policy might be arranged. More than half of the people in China will choose not to marry in the future. Now the economy is sluggish, inflation, sparsely populated, and everyone is struggling. It takes a lot to raise a child.
The current situation of society is already very difficult, not to mention the responsibility of the next generation. Of course, this is only my opinion and should not be imposed on you.
The man expressed his understanding and believed that a person would live more freely.
The woman then said, "If we can't be together, you can tell the elders that we don't have a good personality. There is no need to mention the matter of barrenness. ”
The man agreed on the surface, but behind the scenes, he complained on the Internet, which caused a lot of discussion.
Some netizens expressed their doubts, since the woman does not want children, why did she ask the man to be sterilized? After the man is sterilized, it will be difficult if he gets divorced. The woman is not sterilized and keeps her own way back, but does not leave room for the man, which is unfair to the man.
Others argue that since the woman does not want to have children, why not ask the man to have a ligation and remove the woman's fallopian tubes? Could it be that the woman's family is wealthy? Otherwise, how could such a request be made?
It was also pointed out that the agreement only emphasized the consequences of the man's infidelity and did not mention the woman's situation, is such an agreement fair?
Personally, I think it's stupid to find someone to restrain yourself if you have chosen not to have children? With enough time and money, why not pursue the happiness you want? In short, don't hurt others and live your life well is the most important thing.