It was a morning and I walked into the classroom for a routine morning check. Li Jun did not come. When I asked the children in the class, they all said they didn't know. Is there something going on at home? I quickly took out my mobile phone and dialed the parent's **.
Hello Li Jun's mother! Didn't Li Jun come to school today? ”
Yes, yes, teacher, there is something going on at home today, so let's take a leave of absence. ”
What can you tell us about? ”
There was some furniture to be removed from the house, and his father was working outside the house, and there was no man in the house, so I asked Junjun to take time off work and help me at home. ”
Li Jun, you are so inappropriate! Li Juncai is only in the second grade, how can he have the strength? ”
We all have great strength, so don't worry, teacher! ”
Li Jun's mother, we need to move things at home, we are in the countryside, the child's father is no longer there, everyone knows that the neighbors will take a hand when they go to ask for it. Let Li Jun come to school! He just has a lot of strength, and the strength that grows out of the tender bones and tender flesh can't be forced, if he is injured, it will be a lifelong thing. ”
Teacher, I know, we're going to be careful. ”
Li Jun's mother, Li Jun has to come to school, otherwise I will come to visit Ha! ”
In the third class, Li Jun really came to school with a schoolbag. I asked the child, but he still helped his mother move the furniture together, and his mother did not invite the aunt and aunt in the village. In the countryside during the day, there are more women, and men basically go out. There are also those who don't go out or don't work, but only a few.
This is not the first time Li Jun has helped his mother, and it can even be said to be the norm, although the child is only in the second grade.
Such children are not one or two, and if there is something at home, parents will let their children not come to school, and they will not ask for leave at all. Every time, the teacher called ** and said that the child would not come today.
Returning to Li Jun's matter, I understand that it is not easy for parents.
Invite outsiders, you will owe favors, there is no free lunch in the world. Moreover, many people do not want outsiders to enter because of their own family background, knowing that their home is not decent enough.
Choosing to let your child be on top is really not an option. Parents also know in their hearts. As far as I know, it is inevitable for parents to let their children help. It's just that I won't choose the time from Monday to Friday after that.
This kind of thing happens to almost no girls, but I don't dare to say absolutely, after all, my experience is limited.
It has always been said that men and women are equal. However, on weekdays, when talking to some parents, it is obvious that some parents, especially mothers, have a sense of pride in their words because they have sons.
Their pride makes me feel uncomfortable. Because I don't feel how much these mothers care about their sons' studies. The child's grades are also mediocre, but they are very well-behaved. Among the students I bring with me, there are them every year.
They can conscientiously complete the assignments assigned by the teacher every day, whether written or oral. Like written homework, you can write it well at school and don't have to write it at home. Back at home, they would help their parents with household chores, sweeping the floor, wiping tables, cooking, washing, chopping, and even washing clothes.
However, outside of homework, there is very little time to read extracurricular books. In fact, what they lack the most is the accumulation of extracurricular knowledge, which leads to poor grades.
Communicate with parents and say yes to each one. In fact, I learned from my children that after listening to the teacher's words, parents will directly ask their children if they want to read extracurricular books. If the child says that there are really no extracurricular books. Mom would say, okay, I'll buy it when I have money. A drag can be dragged for a long time. If the child says there is a book at hand. The mother stopped talking, and didn't ask again. And it was over.
And the child himself does not know how to speak. It was only after my teacher checked that I found out that the child was not reading any extracurricular books. After understanding the situation, I don't want to say anything more to my parents. Obviously, parents are actually reluctant to spend this money, and they are embarrassed to say it directly because of the dignity of parents.
I directly told the children that I borrowed it from the students in my class, and my teacher organized the children to let the books drift, and the classmates exchanged them with each other.
The children are still young, innocent in innocence, and childlike in words. Children who don't have their own extracurricular books, and children who have books don't lend them to them, have to exchange them. Although there are books in the library corner that you can borrow, most of them are in the library, so they are limited. Some of the books that children want to read are not easy to adjust to the whole school library.
As a teacher, I have to help these children borrow books from other children.
Once, I bought a list of required books at my own expense, thinking that I would put them in the classroom so that the children could see them. Who knows, the children borrowed it, and then they couldn't even find the books. I know it's hidden by the students, and they love it. Some of the books in the school library are missing, and that's why they're missing.
I didn't look it up, I just passed. Although I lost the book, I still felt a sense of relief in my heart. It's just that, due to my own financial situation, I didn't buy any more books for the class after that. It is better to let the students in the class borrow from each other, and the little master of the book is in charge, and the book will not be lost.