Men are the pillars of a family, and they seem to exist to support the woman and the whole family for the day.
However, not all people are satisfied with the world's perception and carry the banner of responsibilities and obligations that should be fulfilled.
Some men, perhaps because of their poor ability, or because they really have no sense of responsibility, will always do something that hurts their feelings until it affects the relationship between husband and wife.
1.Complain about your wife's family.
When my sister married her husband, her family was not in favor.
I think my brother-in-law is 35 years old, has no car, no house, no savings, and is fundamentally an unreliable person.
But the younger sister insisted on getting married, and the family couldn't resist the sister's insistence, so they had to agree to the marriage of the two.
After getting married, life is not so smooth, my brother-in-law is thinking about starting a business, but he has no ability to start a business, he seems to be busy every day, but in fact, he can't get a penny back.
When my sister got married, the bride price given by my brother-in-law was not much, and I used it to subsidize the family after marriage.
My sister persuaded my brother-in-law to find a solid job, but my brother-in-law complained that my sister's family looked down on him, so he would desperately try to prove it by starting a business.
My sister was stunned by her husband's words, and with all kinds of forwards, my sister finally understood why a man her parents didn't look down on not marry.
Because a person has to rely on his parents for the first half of his life, it is understandable if his family of origin is poor;However, in adulthood, they live to the age of 35 on their own, struggle for some time, and are still poor, which is enough to show that such people are incapable.
An incompetent person will habitually not think about others, and will not feel that the bad state of life is caused by himself, but will feel that all the misfortunes in life are given by others.
He will find all kinds of excuses and reasons to blame others for his failures in life, especially your family.
Can not see you. It seems that all disasters are of your own making, deflecting the stress that should be present on you.
Stay away from marriage and family.
Lu Yao's ** "Ordinary World" has created such an image of a lazy man, he is Wang Manyin.
Coax his wife Sun Lanhua's hand with sweet words, go home after marriage, do not perform the duties that her husband should perform, and be away all the year round, regardless of housework, let alone children, all the difficulties in life should be handed over to Sun Lanhua.
Nominally, it's to earn money to support his family, but it's actually doing opportunistic work.
The "husband" of the husband and wife is separated by "two people".
In marriage and family, no matter what you do, you need to give together and take responsibility for each other's roles, so that life can go smoothly.
A person without skills, he will not realize it.
He will not think of working hard to grow up and help his other half share the responsibilities and pressures that should be shared, but will feel stable and poor in life, or see that his wife is capable and enjoy the convenience that his wife brings.
Men who are absent in marriage are often unreliable, and the side also reflects the inability of such people to run the marriage properly.
Someone once said:
Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb trees, it will think of itself as stupid for the rest of its life.
Perhaps, some men are really incapable, so they will consume you step by step.
But a good partner can brighten up the life of the other half, when you find out that he is not your ideal type when you are in contact with the other person, but the wood has been thrown, there is no way to make everything start again, instead of being frustrated, it is better to insult more, it is better to guide more.