Communicating properly with your ex in the hope of getting her ex to change his mind requires a mature, rational and respectful attitude. Here are some suggestions:
Stay calm and rational :When communicating with your ex, it is very important to remain calm and rational. Don't let your emotions control what you say or do, and avoid anger, blame, or emotion.
Respect the other person's decision:Respect your ex's decisions and choices, and don't try to interfere or change their minds. Respect the autonomy and free will of the other party, express understanding and acceptance of the other person's choice.
Honesty and candor :Be honest and upfront in your communication and express your true thoughts and feelings. Don't hide the truth or lie, it's important to build trust and transparency.
Pay attention to the other person's feelings:Pay attention to the other party's feelings and needs in communication, try to think from the other party's point of view, understand the other party's position and situation, and express concern and respect for the other party.
Express yourself for change and growth:If you have any changes or growth, you can express it appropriately to your ex. Show your positive attitude and mature thinking, and let the other person see your progress and efforts.
Establish a positive communication atmosphere:Establish a positive atmosphere in communication, avoid quarrels and conflicts, and maintain a good communication attitude and style. Try to find common ground and solutions, and make communication a tool for understanding and reconciliation.
Give each other time and space:Give the other person enough time and space to think and decide. Don't force the other person to respond or change immediately, and respect the other person's thought process and autonomy in decision-making.
The most important thing is to respect the other person's choices and decisions, regardless of the outcome of the communication. If your ex is not willing to change her mind, you should also accept and respect the other person's choice, and do not force or cling to it.