At the end of the year, civil servants tend to attend less It's not arrogance, it's really tired of it!
At the end of the year and the beginning of the year, there are more and more class reunions. Everyone is ready to go home on Chinese New Year's Eve, you can see your childhood friends who have not seen you for many years, and in addition to reunion, you can also excitedly recall the good life of childhood.
After all, this is a class meeting, not a group meeting, and the group meeting is not held at all times. However, some people have found that not everyone is different, and there are always people who do not come every time, including most of those who are admitted to the civil service.
I was admitted to the civil service, why didn't I want to attend a class reunion? Your unit is so big, can't you please anyone? Actually, it's not a matter of reluctance, but of fear.
As a state functionary, there are always more or less rights. Class reunions are not all for reminiscing about the past and reminiscing about the past, some people always have a purpose.
However, civil servants also have their own work honors and codes of conduct, and things that can be demanded in exchange for benefits are often ignored. After all, as long as you obey, you will do it without asking.
Therefore, this reunion is not a reunion, but a problem, and may even be entangled and dragged into the mud. In addition to the fear of being asked to do something, there are several other points that also worry them.
Civil servants are in a more sensitive situation and are subject to supervision even after hours. Drinking too much alcohol and losing your temper at the dinner table can also cause adverse effects once it is made public.
Some units also prohibit civil servants from drinking alcohol, even during off-duty hours. And when students get together, what they say, what they talk about, what they say, and what they do, once they are maliciously used by people with ulterior motives, they will continue to be in trouble, and even lose their jobs.
Some students may think that these worries are related to the fact that they do not have a good relationship. As long as you have enough trust in each other, you don't need to worry about these problems, isn't it good for everyone to be open and honest?
But in reality, this is not the case. Even if no one is looking for a job, civil servants have their own embarrassments. For example, during this time, some people go back to their hometown for the New Year, and everyone has time to get together.
But he's a civil servant, he hasn't had a holiday yet, and he doesn't have time to celebrate. So, it's not that he doesn't want to celebrate, it's that he doesn't have time. Besides, it's too strange to be asked about the salary.
If you say less, others will think it's fake, and if you say too much, others will think it's corruption, in short, it's not good. This identity is very sensitive, so it is necessary to maintain a sense of mystery.
None of these fears are alarmist, and there are even times when what actually happens is enough. Being sober and alert is also a way for civil servants to protect themselves.
Civil servants have a special status and must always be aware of their influence on the unit. After all, they represent the public, so even during off-duty hours, there can be no unusual behavior.
If you have a civil servant friend around you, you should have a deep understanding. They don't even have the freedom to post on Moments, and everyone carefully controls their emotions.
In his circle of friends, you see all positive things, and occasionally record some small things in life, and there are very few others.
They are a habit of wishful thinking, no one prescribes, but everyone acquiesces. It's also a form of self-preservation, so it's not that they don't want to go to meetings, they just live carefully.
The friendship between classmates is precious. But the kind of class reunion that focuses on finding people and showing off is actually a kind of consumption. It will be easier to get together with three or five friends, plus family.
I also hope that all students can enjoy this pure friendship. Don't let a change in your identity change when you grow up change the flavor of friendship.
Whether you're a big boss, a small business owner, a part-time worker, or a housewife, being able to put aside who you are will make our encounters more genuine.
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