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I am Mrs. Fish, not Mrs. Fish, but Mrs. Fish.

I have only lived for more than 40 years, but I feel like I have experienced hundreds of years before I have encountered so many bizarre twists and turns.

After graduating from university, I married my husband who had no house, no car and no savings. I thought I was married to love, but after I got married, I found out that I was married to a "scumbag".

Before marriage, he spoke sweetly and made all kinds of promises; After marriage, he is the "Teddy among people", and cheating is commonplace;

I was angry, compromised, numb, and it wasn't until later that I came to my senses and stepped out of the barrier of marriage.

Life is often like this, just give you a slap in the face, and stuff a sweet date for you. Two years later, I met my current husband who was 8 years older than me on a blind date, and he not only ** me, but also spoiled me.

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I am from Nanchang, Jiangxi Province, the old revolutionary base area. My family is made up of "people with lofty ideals" from all over the world: my grandfather is from Jiangxi, my grandmother is from Heilongjiang, my grandfather is from Shandong, and my grandmother is from Henan.

When I was a child, my mother had to work night shifts, and when my father returned to university, he sent me to a full-time nursery school, when I had just turned three.

In winter, I have to go for a morning run in the morning, I have been weak and sick since I was a child, and I have asthma in winter, and I endure every morning run, and I dare not tell the teacher. Sleeping in a cot at night and seeing the reflection of the leaves outside the window on the window, like a witch's hand, can only sleep in fear.

From elementary school to junior high school, my grades were good. But when I stepped into high school, my grades dropped particularly badly under the huge pressure of studying.

Although I was in the key class, my grades were always in the bottom few places. In the third year of high school, the school began to implement the last elimination system. In the monthly examination every month, if the students in the key class are surpassed by the ordinary class, they will be replaced.

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As a result, I was ruthlessly humiliated in the first monthly exam. It was the first time in my life that I felt disgraced, standing in the hallway with my schoolbag on my back, waiting for the regular class teacher to assign me a seat, feeling like a reservoir dog, and I really wanted to find a crack in the ground to get into.

The naked humiliation deeply pierced my heart, which was supposed to be strong. Throughout my senior year of high school, I studied hard every day like a chicken.

Although I left the key class, the original teachers were very good to me. The homeroom teacher said that your place will always be reserved for you, and the chemistry teacher even gave me a small chemistry test paper every day for me to take back and do, and would also take time to explain to me.

After unremitting efforts, I finally surpassed half of my classmates in the key class in the next monthly exam, and I could have returned to the key class. But if the shoe fits properly, only your own feet know.

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I liked the relatively slow-paced learning state of the regular class, and the pressure was not so great, so I applied to stay in the ordinary class, and later successfully admitted to a 211 university in the province.

Through this incident, I understood for the first time two truths in life:The boundaries of human capabilities are endless; Don't follow the crowd in anything, you must find the right one for you, that is the best.

I thought that after finishing high school, the most difficult school in my life had been completed. I finally stepped into the gate of the university, and was about to talk about a love affair as written in the book, and enjoy the different life of college students, but I was kicked into the mud pit of architecture, and it was another five years of struggle.

Architecture is a comprehensive discipline, not only to learn mathematics, mechanics, and materials science in the sciences, but also to learn the history of ancient architecture and Western architecture in the liberal arts, and also to learn art drawing, color, sculpture, etc.

But I didn't regret my choice, because I learned more knowledge in this major, broadened my horizons, and laid a solid foundation for my life path

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In my last year of university, I interned at a local architectural design firm and stayed with the firm after graduation. The company's top leader is professional and good to employees. With the help of my boss and colleagues, I have become a qualified worker from a novice to a qualified worker, and I can make drawings that meet the bidding documents.

But the company's second-in-command is like a Huang Shiren, extremely mean. One day it was raining heavily, and the water under the bridge pier was too much to pass, so I had to push the electric car home and take the bus to work, and I was late.

After he found out, he scolded in **, ignoring the fact that I am never late on weekdays, and there is no human touch at all.

During work, my grandmother was seriously ill, and I wanted to go back to spend the last time with her, but the company was busy, and the work was a turnip and a pit, so I couldn't take a long vacation. In the face of family and work, I chose to quit my job and accompany my grandmother.

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After my grandmother left, I was depressed for a while, but after collecting my mood, I returned to work and went to work as an administrative secretary for a listed real estate company.

During the day, I go to work normally, just like an ordinary white-collar worker. But when you come home at night, it's an endless mess of chicken feathers. Because by this time, my first marriage had come to an end.

The year after graduating from college, I got married.

Although our marriage does not have a wedding ring, a wedding room, or even a wedding, I don't care, I have my eye on this person.

My younger self was full of all kinds of beautiful visions for marriage, but I didn't expect that this relationship would be full of deception from the beginning.

When he pursued me, he said that he had a house in Nanchang, which was rewarded to him by his boss, and I believed it. Later, I learned that the house was a fixed asset of the company in Nanchang.

After getting married, this man made me even more stumbling. In life, he and himself are simply like two people. Not only did he lie a lot, but he also cheated, more than once, and he was simply a "teddy among people".

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From the initial anger to numbness, from quarrels to indifference, in the midst of separation, I suffered alone, because this was the path I had chosen. Later, I figured out that instead of going on like this, it is better to live alone, even if no one wants it in this life, it should not be scum to the end, scum to doubt life.

One cold winter day, we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to end this farcical life journey, and never said goodbye and never saw each other again.

Two years later, out of the haze, I began to try to start a new relationship, so I registered an account on the blind date**.

God treats everyone fairly, and after going through n+1 emotional tribulations, I finally welcomed my own Prince Charming.

He was 8 years older than me, had been sent to Europe to work, was divorced and had no children. I feel that our conditions are quite compatible, and no one will dislike anyone.

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After chatting online for almost more than 1 month, it was very speculative, and we were ready to get married without meeting.

On New Year's Day 2010, we decided to meet in Hong Kong. To my surprise, he actually transferred a sum of money to my account before the meeting, saying that it was to dispel my concerns.

After meeting on New Year's Day, he directly bought a diamond proposal ring and a wedding ring, on the 6th, we went back to Nanchang to register together, and on the 8th, I went home with him to meet his mother.

The whole process feels like a roller coaster, but this time the car is all the way up to the top of life.

After registering, he will need to return to Europe to continue working. Before leaving Nanchang, he left a sum of money for me to buy a wedding house in Nanchang, and then successively gave me bride price money and wedding banquet money.

In this way, he worked in Europe, and I was at home to organize our wedding, and in April 2010, we had a grand wedding ceremony.

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He is a person who understands women very well, and he knows that women like me are insecure, so he will give me enough security from little things. Sometimes I think about it, I am grateful to his ex-wife for giving such a good man.

In the first year of marriage, we had our own baby. When I was pregnant, it was just in time for my mother-in-law to fall seriously ill, so we decided to return to China temporarily. I returned to Nanchang to give birth, and he went back to his hometown to take care of his mother-in-law.

Not long after my mother-in-law passed away, he did not rush back to work, but stayed with me until the baby was born.

Within a few months, his dossier relationship returned home from Europe, and he was assigned to Brazil when the company reassigned his position.

Because the child was just born, in order to be with our mother and daughter, he decisively gave up his job of sending hundreds of thousands of dollars a year to Brazil.

Later, he told me that from the day he entered the marriage hall with me, he secretly swore in his heart: the most important thing in this life is family, hard and tired, as long as the family can be together, it is the best.

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He was my husband, my brother, my best friend, and he was the one who helped me reshape my inner world, completely freeing me from the unbearable and youthful nature of my childhood and adolescence.

In the first year of our marriage, we had a very difficult time. At that time, he lost a lot of money on his investment, plus the pressure of his children, car, and house, but I only learned about it later.

He said that he didn't fully understand me at that time, and didn't know if I was the one who could share the ups and downs, so he survived these darkest moments of married life on his own.

Life is like this, as long as two people cherish each other and work hard together, the days will get better and better.

When the children grow up, we hope that they will have better choices in the future, so we have reached a tacit consensus on the issue of going to school - let the children go to international schools.

However, at that time, international schools in China were generally more expensive, and by chance, we came into contact with international schools in Thailand.

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There are 8 international schools in Chiang Mai, Thailand, and the tuition fee for a year is about 100,000 yuan, and the local living cost is not high, about 1.2 million yuan can buy a three-story single-family house, if it is 1.5 million, then with the front and rear yards plus an independent garage, which is acceptable to us.

From the time we were exposed to this information, to the time we came to Thailand to investigate, and finally to settle in Chiang Mai, it only took us 5 months.

Today, our family has spent 7 years in Chiang Mai. In the past 7 years, my husband has spent all his time with his family and children, except for some investment work. He is a good father who knows how to give his children full and quality companionship.

Usually I work hard, he will take the child out for a walk, a walk, as soon as he goes out in the morning. He wanted to let my children have more exposure to the outdoors and also let me get a good rest without being disturbed by my children.

In 2011, when the eldest daughter was born, she caught up with the melamine incident, and many mothers got together to worry about milk powder.

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Because my husband worked in Europe, I took this opportunity to start the international ** of milk powder, and later developed to the whole international ** of maternal and child products**.

In order to reassure customers, I will list all the best products, from the selection to the entire manufacturer information, to the delivery time and arrival time of the goods, etc., in detail.

Sometimes some customers ask about product quality, I don't just search for the answer from the Internet to answer, but go back and ask the manufacturer directly, let the professional person give the answer, and then explain this to the customer as it is, which will get the full trust of the customer.

After arriving in Thailand, I had the experience of taking my children abroad to study in an international school, and I found that many parents in China had the same needs as me.

Therefore, I began to promote international schools on the short ** platform, mainly introducing the nature and benefits of international schools, as well as the teaching system and fees of international schools in Thailand.

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In fact, the original intention of doing this is not to make much money, but more to make people who are like me anxious about their children's schooling.

Because I am very meticulous in my work and do my homework very solidly, I have a relatively in-depth involvement in the whole international school abroad, and I have more and more fans as I do it.

Thailand is no stranger to locals, but from the perspective of a resident, there are some differences.

Chiang Mai is still very simple in the people's customs, between neighbors, usually walking on the street to meet the police, or when driving to each other, Thai people will roll down the window and nod their heads to show gratitude.

The security situation here is not as complicated as it is rumored in China, and for a while it was even possible to stay closed at night.

I like the slow pace of life here, and I like the way I live now, becauseI find things I love and make small achievements in those things.

Life may be like this, choose a person to be white, choose a city to grow old. For me, both came a little late, but they ended up in my life, and I was lucky and cherished.

I also wish everyone can find happiness in life, find a city that makes them feel at ease, and live their life well.

Dictation: Mrs. Fish].

Editor: Walker Gangzi].

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