In the morning, I received a ** from my husband, and we talked for an hour. Because we are usually busy, we rarely have time to chat properly, so this ** is really a rare opportunity to communicate. He told me that his brother-in-law's family planned to go back to his mother-in-law's house at the end of January for the New Year and was going to stay for half a month. I think it's a good plan, especially considering that my brother-in-law has recently lost his job and hasn't found a new job yet. He said he had posted his resume, had been contacted by headhunters, and that he was going for an interview next week. I applaud the optimism of the little uncle, after all, he once had a successful career jump, and his monthly salary directly increased several times. However, the husband mentioned the quarrel between the two brothers last night, and their ideas and ways of thinking are often at odds, especially when faced with difficulties and future developments. The husband grew up in the army since he was a child, and his thinking pays more attention to the overall situation and overall interests, while the younger uncle pursues the maximization of financial interests. I took a deep breath, these two brothers were sometimes so unpredictable, like they were destined to have a complicated relationshipTwins
My husband then told me that my mother-in-law sent him a ** last night and asked about our arrangements for the New Year. There are only two rooms in the mother-in-law's house, and the brother-in-law's family has gone back, and if we go back again, there will definitely be no place to live. So my husband proposed that we could choose not to go back to my mother-in-law's house and go directly to my mother's house for the New Year. However, the mother-in-law immediately suggested that they could go to a hotel near their home and that the accommodation problem was not a big problem. My husband said that he still needs to look at the ticket purchase situation before making a decision. Hearing this, I couldn't help but sigh at the understanding of my mother-in-law, who really wanted us to go back for the New Year. I reminded my husband that although accommodation was an issue, the opportunity for us to be reunited at my in-laws' house was really rare. After all, since the two brothers got married, we have hardly had a year of reunion. And the problem of accommodation is only a minor problem, we can choose to stay in a hotel and enjoy the reunion of a family of four. My husband mentioned that I had a late holiday, and there may not be enough time, and it will be more tormentary. I said that I still had 4 days of annual leave left and could take 2 days before the year. As long as we are determined, there is no problem that cannot be solved. I was worried about the cost, but my husband promised that it would be all-inclusive. I smiled and said, well, I'll take care of the ticket purchase, and he doesn't have to worry about the rest.
In fact, when we talked about my brother-in-law going back to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year, I also thought about a question: It's rare that my husband has time to take a vacation this year, should we go back as a family to achieve a reunion of my in-law's family? Even though I didn't have room to think deeply because it wasn't time to buy a ticket yet, when I heard my mother-in-law's expectations, I realized that she really wanted us to go back. Even so, we had to travel between Beijing and my mother's home, and the time was a bit tight, and I had two childrenChinese New YearTickets for the period are also not easy to buy. However, I think of my mother-in-law's expectations and feel her longing for family reunion. This is their most precious wish in old age, and they want to see the scene of family reunion. In this case, let's follow their wishes, follow our husband's wishes, and go back to our in-laws' house for the New Year! The hardships of the journey are nothing, as long as we work together, difficulties can always be overcome. Chinese New YearIt is a festival of reunion, no matter what kind of unhappiness there has been, after all, they are the parents of their husbands and the grandparents of their children. Therefore, I no longer care about the past conflicts and misunderstandings, but choose to face and solve problems with a positive attitude.
Although for couples like us who are close to middle age, there are not many surprises in the New Year. But I want our two children to be able to feel itChinese New Yearmeaning. Even with two children, there will be some difficulties and hardships on the road, but the anticipation, joy and emotion of the three people will make it all worth it. Chinese New YearIt is a holiday that evokes our richest emotions, and we should cherish every opportunity to be reunited. So, despite the slight toss-up, we decided to go back to our in-laws' house for the New Year and spend a warm time with our parentsChinese New Year
Through this exchange, I realized that we had some differences on the issue of the New Year's celebration at my in-laws' house. Although there were some conflicts and misunderstandings before, I decided to face and solve the problem with a positive attitude. Although going back to my in-law's house for the New Year will experience some difficulties and hardships, the opportunity to get together is rare, and we should cherish every reunion. Chinese New YearIt is a festival that can evoke the richest emotions, and we want children to feel itChinese New Yearmeaning. Although the journey is hard, as long as you are determined, there is no problem that cannot be solved. I'm looking forward to itWith a warm and reunitedChinese New YearI hope our family of four can have a memorable holiday.