I saw this skit: a girl who has been in love with her boyfriend for two years thinks they are in love and have found true love.
However, she happened to see her boyfriend hugging another woman, ran over angrily, slapped him, and asked him why he did such a shameful thing to her.
The boyfriend didn't feel guilty, but blamed the girl and said, "I've been with you for two years, and you won't even touch me, I believe it, but I'm also a saint." ”
The girl felt aggrieved. I never thought my boyfriend would value carnal desires over love.
The girl originally planned to dedicate her most precious and sacred body to him on the first night of marriage, but her boyfriend did not understand and thought she was conservative. What time is it now, she is still very conservative.
The girl did not understand. Am I doing something wrong?
Yan'er said, "Yes, it's just that the man doesn't love you enough." A man who loves you will respect your ideas and will not force you, let alone betray you. ”
For example, I recently read a book about a loving couple. The wife lost her memory because of ** and forgot the deep feelings between husband and wife.
For a wife, her husband is a stranger, but she has a wedding photo, a marriage certificate, and a child, which can prove that the man in front of her is her husband. However, when I go to bed at night, I don't let my husband sleep. Close to her.
I always felt like I didn't know my husband very well, and I hated sleeping in the same bed. If a husband does not love his wife, he may force her to marry him without considering her feelings. Either become a couple or go out and find another woman.
What did this husband do? He respects his wife and slowly influences her with all his warm and caring gestures to make her gradually accept him.
The 6'1" tall man curled up on the couch to sleep because his wife wouldn't let him sleep. The other room actually had a bed, but he only wanted to sleep in the same room as his wife. No matter how uncomfortable it is to curl up on the sofa, as long as my wife is there, I don't tell him to go to bed, but he just doesn't go.
During this time, Shaw thought that the women would find many opportunities to attack him, but he chased them away without mercy. Even if they are accidentally drugged, they can hold back and jump out to dodge. I feel sorry for my wife.
At night, when he saw his wife's beautiful sleeping face, a primitive impulse kept him awake, so he kept going to the bathroom to take a cold shower.
Eventually, he influenced his wife and repaired their old relationship.
This is true love. They care more than others and stick to their principles. In his words, he only has his wife in his eyes, and looking at other women will only make him feel distressed.
Comparing the two stories, it is clear who is true love.
In Youngor's view, if a man truly loves a woman, he will draw boundaries in his heart and avoid close contact with women other than his wife.
If a man crosses the line and turns you around or turns around for the next target because of rejection, it proves that he only needs you physically.
Wen Jing arrived at the university for a few days, and everything felt very fresh. One day, when I went to the school's water supply room to fetch water, I met a senior who looked curiously at Wen Jing as she played in the basin like a child.
Wen Jin found that someone was spying on her, so she immediately picked up the bathtub and ran, and from then on, she could see her seniors every day.
On the third day, the senior took the initiative to stop her and whispered in her ear. "You're so cute, be my girlfriend, I've been loving you lately. ”
Tenzin was surprised: "We've only known each other for three days, and it's the first time you've spoken to me. ”
The senior smiled mysteriously and said that time cannot prove whether my love for you is deep or not. Only the heart can do it. Prove it and go on a date tomorrow.
Hyunjing, who has never been in love, is a little resistant to things unfolding too quickly, but she has never been in love, but she is confused by sweet words and becomes happy.
It turned out that I was cute. That senior is very handsome, I must want to try it.
When she told her close roommate about it, the roommate immediately stopped her and said that the senior was just a bad reputation *** He had many girlfriends, but the one they had been with the longest together. Said they weren't dating. It lasts for more than a month.
Love at first sight is not common. If anything, it wouldn't be moving that fast. The sole purpose of "love at first sight" is to get this woman as soon as possible.
Frankly, it's heartbreaking that men who don't have "boundaries" and can't protect themselves for you have carnal desires that override their love for you.
Lightning approaches you with purpose. Don't have any illusions. They can just walk up to you and walk away.
Learning to think rationally and taking more time for yourself is also a way to protect yourself, because men who only pursue carnal desires and do not pursue true love will reveal their true nature because of time. You will be able to: