Good love is often given and realized, hoping that the other person will become better.
When a man loves someone deeply, he will give up the idea of possession and only want to help you become the ideal version of yourself, and he will never want to get these three things from you.
True love is never in control, and only wants the other person to be what they think, and does not allow the other person to have their own thoughts.
If a man really loves you, he will respect your personal wishes and not ask you to listen only to him and not allow rebuttals.
Whether it is your academic plan or personal development, he will listen carefully to your ideas and will only give his own opinions without interfering too much.
This kind of love does not make people feel suffocated, but gives people strength from it.
If you've alienated family and friends because you're in love, chances are it's not a healthy relationship.
Because healthy love should be love, which is as important as family affection and friendship, rather than giving up family affection and friendship because of love.
A man who truly loves you will only slowly integrate into your life and get along with your family and friends, without taking you away from his own family and friends.
One of my classmates dated for a while and spent almost every day with her boyfriend, neglecting her family and friends.
Her boyfriend reminded her:
Your parents told you to come home for dinner, and you didn't go, and your friends called you to a party, and you didn't go, and much later, they would hate me for taking up too much of your time. ”
The students later realized that they had neglected their family and friends because they were in love.
But she is also grateful for her boyfriend's warning.
Her boyfriend said:
I want to be someone important in your life, but I don't want to deprive you of other relationships. In addition to my love, you need family and friends to take care of you. ”
If a man really loves someone, he will think about you and will not let you have only him, away from his family and friends, and thus fall into a helpless situation.
People who talk about love will not give up on self-growth because of love.
A man who doesn't love you will ask you to just revolve around him, centered on him, and not think about your own interests.
A man who loves you will always encourage you to pursue your own growth and will not lock you into a relationship or a family.
True love has always been a "sky high and birds flying" who support each other, rather than being locked up in a "boudoir compound".
Zhou Guoping said: Love is not the freezing point of life, but a flowing river.
True love is never static, but resonates with the picture in both directions.
A man who loves you deeply will not make you only respect him and sacrifice you to satisfy him, but should fulfill and support each other.