Returning home for the Chinese New Year is a traditional Chinese custom, but for some, it also means facing questions from friends and family. Whether it's work, marriage, or life, it can be the focus of their attention. In order to avoid embarrassment, here are 5 coping strategies to help you cope with the questioning easily.
1.Relaxed and humorous answers.
When friends and family ask about sensitive topics, you can answer them in a light-hearted and humorous way to resolve the embarrassment. For example, when someone asks you why you're not married yet, you can jokingly say, "I'm still waiting for that special someone, and he's probably still on his way!" Such an answer can not only dissolve the awkwardness, but also make the atmosphere relaxed and happy.
2.Change the subject.
If you don't want to answer a question, you can subtly change the subject. For example, when someone asks you about your job, you can say, "The job is fine, but recently I found a very interesting movie, have you seen it?" "By shifting the subject, you can avoid answering awkward questions while also making the conversation more interesting.
3.Positive attitude.
Whatever your life situation, stay positive. When someone asks about your situation, you can answer in a confident tone: "I am trying to pursue my dreams, and although there are still some challenges, I am confident that I will succeed." Such an answer can not only give people a sense of your positive attitude, but also make them look forward to your future.
4.Honest and frank answers.
Sometimes, answering questions honestly and frankly may be the best option. If you don't want to hide your situation, you can just tell your friends and family what you really think. For example, when someone asks you why you haven't found a job yet, you can say, "I'm looking for a job that suits me and I'm still working on it." An honest answer will make people recognize your candor and effort.
5.An understatement answer.
Sometimes, you can answer some questions in an understatement way without being overly detailed. For example, when someone asks you about marriage, you can say, "I haven't found a suitable partner yet, but I'm sure fate will come." Such an answer can avoid embarrassment and give a sense of what you are looking forward to the future.
In short, when we return to our hometown for the Chinese New Year, we can respond to questions from friends and relatives in a light-hearted and humorous way, change the topic, be positive, honest and frank, or understate. Whichever strategy you choose, maintain confidence and a positive attitude to make sure you have a great year.
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