In love, we always hope that we will be rewarded for our efforts, but sometimes we forget to ask the other person for what we really need. If you really love a man, these 3 things, you need to take the initiative to "ask".
The most precious thing in love is time, and the companionship of time is also an important factor in maintaining a relationship. Whether it is at the beginning of a relationship or has entered a stable period, the other party needs to spend time with him.
Sometimes, a man may not be able to give you enough company because of work, life, etc., so you need to take the initiative to "ask" him for time.
You can discuss with him to do some common things together at a fixed time every week, such as watching movies, cooking, walking, etc., which can not only increase the tacit understanding and intimacy of each other, but also let him know more about your preferences and living habits. At the same time, in the process of companionship, you can also deepen the relationship between you and make love more beautiful.
Communication is an important means of solving problems and building relationships. In love, we need to understand each other's thoughts and feelings through communication to achieve better tacit understanding and trust. If you find that communication with your boyfriend is becoming less and less, or he is always unable to understand your thoughts and feelings, you need to take the initiative to "demand" communication and understanding from him.
You can talk openly with him about your feelings and needs, and tell him that you need his support and understanding. At the same time, learn to listen to his thoughts and feelings and respect his opinions and decisions. Through this way of communication, not only can you increase mutual understanding and trust, but also make your love healthier and longer-lasting.
Commitment and the future are an integral part of love. For women, commitment and future planning are very important. If you are deeply in love with a man, you need to take the initiative to "demand" from him for a promise and a future.
Of course, commitment does not have to be spoken out loud or made in a short period of time, but you need to observe his words and deeds in daily life to see if he is willing to plan for the future and work towards a common goal with you. You can work with him on his future plans and goals to understand his vision and expectations for the future.
At the same time, let him know your expectations and needs for the future, and let him understand how important you are to him. Through mutual commitment and future planning, we can not only increase each other's sense of responsibility and belonging, but also make love more stable and lasting.
Love requires the joint efforts and maintenance of both parties, if you really love a man, don't forget to "ask" him for time companionship, communication and understanding, and commitment and future. These are important factors in maintaining a relationship, and they are also a guarantee to make love more beautiful and long-lasting.
At the same time, we must also learn to respect each other's feelings and needs, and not to over-demand or force them to give us what we want. Only on the basis of mutual understanding and support can we build a healthy and stable relationship. I hope every woman can find her own happy love.