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The problem of student bullying and violence on campus has been reported frequently, and some cases of student bullying and violence have caused serious physical and mental harm to the victims, and the students and their families who have committed bullying and violence also face high personal injury compensation.
What is school bullying
School bullying refers to the behavior of one party deliberately or maliciously bullying or insulting students through physical, verbal, and online means, causing physical injury, property damage, or mental damage to the other party. It mainly includes the following forms:
(1) Physical bullying:The bully violently infringes on the victim's person, intimidating and harming others through physical movements. Such as violent pushing, beating, pushing, violent and threatening chasing, containment, spitting, etc.
(2) Verbal bullying:Bullies mainly attack the bullied directly through verbal words, such as using insulting nicknames, intimidation, verbal abuse, harassment, mockery, or sarcastic language to harm others. Mental damage to the victim to the point of gravity.
(3) Social bullying:Bullies maliciously ostracize, isolate, or exclude the bullied, or spread rumors, sow discord, or play with them, preventing them from integrating into the group, not allowing others to play with them, and excluding them from participating in games and social activities.
(4) Cyberbullying:Bullies use the Internet to invade the privacy of the bullied person, damage their personality or reputation, such as insulting, defaming, spreading rumors, spreading privacy, etc. Usually, cyberbullying appears as an extension and means of verbal bullying and social bullying, amplifying its impact and causing more harm to the person being bullied.
(5) Property bullying:There are three forms of manifestation: first, the bully forcibly takes possession of and destroys the property of the bullied; Second, the bully asks the bullied person for money or Internet virtual property, etc.; Third, the bully instructs the bullied person to steal, forcibly possess, or damage other bullied person's property or engage in acts such as stealing or snatching third party property through coercion or intimidation. Property bullying is often based on physical, verbal, and social bullying, and continues to evolve.
(6) Sexual bullying:Sexual bullying is different from sexual crimes, and refers to the use of sex or special body parts as the object of ridicule, or filming, disseminating, or depicting sex-related **, images, and texts that make the bullied person uncomfortable, or forcing friction or attacking special parts of the bullied person's body. Such behaviour can cause very serious mental anguish to the person being bullied. Sexual bullying is generally accompanied by physical bullying, verbal bullying, and social bullying, and many forms work together to cause serious consequences.
Once the above-mentioned bullying and violence cross the line, it is very likely to constitute a violation of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law of the People's Republic of China" or even violate the "Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China", and will be severely punished by law.
What to do if you encounter school bullying
(1) Students
1.Correctly handle conflicts and disputes. Where conflicts and disputes occur among students and have developed in the direction of bullying and violence on campus, they should be promptly reported to school staff, security guards, community workers, community police, and parents. Properly negotiate and resolve under the auspices of faculty and staff, community justice offices, and community police. Don't let the conflict develop, wantonly provoke the other party, and don't invite each other to a specific area to settle the dispute privately.
2.Stay calm. You should believe that your legitimate rights and interests are protected by the law, overcome the normal psychological reaction of fear and panic, and do not passively follow the bully to an area or enclosed space that is remote, inaccessible, and obscured by sight. And try to tell the other person that the bullying is being carried out through cautionary language, or to get yourself out of trouble through strategic conversations and environmental conditions. In this process, care should be taken to avoid provoking the other party and triggering excessive behavior.
3.Learn to ask for help. First, in the face of school bullying and violence, no matter what kind of intimidation they encounter, they should strive to report to school teachers and parents to get help and protection. The second is to write down the name and ** of the community police posted in front of the school, and if there is a risk or behavior of physical bullying, financial bullying, or sexual bullying, it is necessary to promptly seek help from the public security organs and call the police. Third, in the event of an emergency, you should rush to the nearest security node (police facilities of public security organs, public security booths, duty points, teachers, class cadres, school guards, social unit guard rooms, security rooms, campus monitoring ranges or social security public monitoring probe coverage), loudly warning passers-by for help. If you are controlled by others, you can try to get help by using abnormal movements and other methods to attract the attention of those around you.
(2) Schools
1.Rescue firstFor victims of school bullying, the university should immediately organize and carry out medical assistance, psychological intervention, judicial assistance, and other work to protect the legitimate rights and interests of the victims, and minimize the victims' physical, mental, and other damages.
2.Moderate discipline: Schools should establish and improve school rules and discipline, and carry out work in accordance with relevant laws and regulations. For perpetrators of campus bullying, the school should first notify their parents as soon as possible, give serious criticism and education, and urge strict supervision; Second, schools shall follow school rules and discipline, give disciplinary sanctions in light of the circumstances, carry out educational corrections, and clarify the time period and conditions for educational corrections and the cancellation of sanctions, so that students who carry out bullying can actively correct their mistakes for the better. The general principle is to insist on education and punishment within the limits of the law.
3.Quick response: Schools should promptly pay attention to students' dynamics, and promptly carry out rescue efforts, and reasonably handle school bullying incidents. For students who have been bullied on campus, arrange for the responsible person to have regular heart-to-heart talks, communicate and counsel, and grasp the situation. For students whose conflicts and disputes are acute, have formed serious psychological problems, have serious leaks of privacy, or have collapsed in the interpersonal environment, it is necessary to promptly arrange for class adjustments, reduce contact with the source of the conflict, and avoid aggravating the conflict again. When necessary, report to the competent departments of education to employ measures such as transfer or suspension to eliminate negative impacts.
4.Make up for it with a low profileIn the process of handling, the school should start from the perspective of the victim, pay more attention to the interests of the victim's child and parents, protect the privacy of minors, objectively respond to social concerns, and eliminate negative impacts.
(3) Parents
1.Teach children self-esteem, self-love, and self-protection. Some parents may discipline their children in a way that requires their children to be obedient and suppresses their children's self-esteem and sense of autonomy for a long time. Over time, it can lead to a weak personality and a target of bullying at school. Parents should pay close attention to their children's behavior in learning and life, and if they find abnormalities, they should inquire and understand them in a timely manner, and take action to communicate with the school and teachers in a timely manner to solve the problem reasonably and legally.
2.Encourage your child to build beneficial relationships. Children who are withdrawn, misfits, have poor academic performance, and have poor interpersonal skills are more likely to be bullied at school. Parents should cultivate their children's ability to establish kind and supportive interpersonal relationships with their peers from an early age; At the same time, it is necessary to accompany the children more, pay attention to the children's learning, and solve the difficulties and problems encountered in learning in a timely manner, which can have a buffering effect on the impact of school bullying.
3.Calm down, the child should be the most important object of attention. When your child tells about bullying, stay calm, listen well and respond to it so that your child knows that the situation is completely manageable. No matter what happens, his parents will be on his side and support him.
4.Empathize, don't ask too much about the details. Avoid trying to comfort your child not to worry about his classmates, as this may lead him into thinking that the bullying is due to his own problems, which may lead him to deeper pain and self-blame. Show empathy to your child and send a signal that what he is describing is not the "norm" of growing up and that you are very sad about how he was treated.
5.Acceptance, your parents will never abandon you. Children are prone to extreme emotions after being bullied, such as being unusually resistant to interpersonal relationships, unwilling to go to school, etc., at this time, parents should be tolerant, because the child may be in a state of stress, do not hurt him twice.
6.Calm the child's emotions first. The sooner the emotions are dealt with, the less harm and future impact will be on the child, which is more important than solving the problem itself.
The consequences of school bullying
Students:Students who commit bullying or violence may face the following consequences depending on the severity of the circumstances and the degree of suspected violations and crimes: short-term suspension of classes and isolation at home for reflection; Punish bullies in accordance with school rules and discipline; apologies and reparations to victims; Upon application by the school and approval by the education department and the specialized education committee, the student is transferred to a specialized education school; was punished by the public security organs; was transferred to a juvenile detention center; He was transferred to the judicial authorities for investigation of criminal responsibility.
School:Due to the occurrence of bullying and violence, social concern and adverse impact will be included in the evaluation by the education administrative department, and the relevant responsible person may be removed or dismissed; Investigated for civil joint and several liability by the student's parents for failing to fulfill their school safety responsibilities; Failure to perform the main responsibility for campus security, resulting in the occurrence of vicious cases, the main responsible person and the specific responsible person are to be pursued for public security and criminal responsibility for dereliction of duty.
Parents:Children who have been administratively sanctioned, punished by public security and criminally punished for committing bullying and violence may be suspended for a short period of time and affect their learning progress, or in serious cases they will not be able to continue their studies in the original school, and will be affected for life after being punished by public security and criminal punishment, and their future will be ruined. Due to the intentional injury of the child, bear the comprehensive high compensation such as rescue, ** expenses, loss of work expenses of the other parent, and compensation for mental damages.
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