I always thought that love was the most beautiful thing in the world until I met her. She is the most beautiful scenery in my life, and it is also the deepest pain in my life.
We met at a gathering of friends, and she had a big smile and eyes full of wisdom and tenderness. I was fascinated by her beauty, and our encounter seemed predestined. After we got to know each other and fell in love, we decided to get married.
At first, married life was beautiful and happy. We love each other and support each other, whether it is the trivialities of life or the ups and downs of life, we can face it together. But everything changed in an accident.
It was an ordinary afternoon, and I suddenly found a transfer record, and the beneficiary was my brother-in-law. I couldn't help but wonder that I had never heard her mention such a thing.
I decided to wait quietly for her to come home until she showed up at the door and I told her about the transfer. Her face changed, and she tried to explain but was incoherent, but finally chose to be silent.
I can't understand why she wants to give her brother-in-law such money? We don't have a lot of money, and it's not a small amount of money for us. I was angry and confused, but more disappointed.
I tried to communicate with her in the hope of solving the mystery, but she always avoided talking about it. Our relationship began to strain, and each exchange was filled with estrangement and coldness.
Gradually, I began to look for clues and try to understand the truth behind it. I found out that my wife would give her brother-in-law 3,000 yuan every month.
This discovery relieved the anger and incomprehension in my heart, but at the same time, it also pierced my heart deeply. I began to reflect, what is the problem between us? Was it my distrust of her, or was there a communication problem between us?
After some thought, I decided to have a good talk with her and try to clear up the misunderstanding between us. We sat on the couch and I tried to express my understanding and inclusivity, hoping that we could start over.
But her answer completely disappointed me. She didn't give me any explanation, just said indifferently: "This is my business, I don't need you to take care of it." ”
When I heard this, I felt like a knife in my heart. I used to think that the love between us could overcome everything, but the reality is so cruel. I felt betrayed, and I couldn't accept it.
After a long silence, I made a difficult decision – to leave. I couldn't stand to go on living in a marriage without trust and communication. I know it's going to be a tough road, but I'm going to have to be brave enough to keep going.
The divorce process was not easy, but I learned to be strong and courageous. During this time, I re-examined my life and learned to be independent and grow. I know that while leaving is painful, it is the right choice.
Now, I have stepped out of the shadow of my marriage and found my happiness again. I learned to let go and let go, and to face life's challenges with a forgiving heart. I believe that we can only see the beauty of the rainbow if we have experienced wind and rain.
Perhaps, marriage is not a fairy tale of eternal love, but it is one of the most precious experiences in life. I would like to believe that every experience is a life experience that makes us more mature and stronger.
I chose to leave, not because of cowardice, but because I believed that I deserved a better future. Life will give us different choices, and all we have to do is face them bravely and never give up on the pursuit of happiness.