Behind everything is the silent cultivation and bearing alone.
When we were young, we always looked forward to growing up, we imitated the appearance of adults, and we always felt that the speed of growth was so slow and the process was so long, but we didn't know that it was a rare carefree time in our lives.
When we were children, we saw adults as having the right to make independent decisions and the majesty to give orders, but we never saw the burden and responsibility on our shoulders.
When I grow up and have a little freedom and autonomy, I will slowly understand that every choice has to bear the corresponding consequences, and freedom has a premise, and independence needs to pay a price.
As adults, maybe we don't run ourselves that well. But every time someone cares and greets, we still hold on, and say that everything is fine, please rest assured.
Maybe in the adult world, there are many helpless and have to accept the reality, finding happiness in troubles, finding happiness in anxiety, is everyone's mission, and it is also the destination to make yourself better.
It is everyone's freedom to choose how to live. There is no wrong way to live, only not to work hard. Keeping time for yourself, in the accumulation of time, becoming better and better, and making life management prosperous is the first essence of each of our lives.
Maybe the life in front of you is full of uncertainties, but you must know that no one's life is static, everyone will have times of confusion, but after the confusion, there can be something to achieve.
When we grow up, we are used to reporting good news and not bad news, used to bearing alone, used to sharing success, but we choose to bear the pain alone.
Maybe this is the attitude of adults, who would rather bear it alone than let others see their frustration and embarrassment, get used to solving all their troubles alone, and get used to striving for happiness on their own.
In fact, the troughs and swamps of life are not a big deal, it doesn't hurt to say it if you can't bear it, it may become a drag if you hold it in your heart, find someone to share, even if there is no substantial help, you can make yourself a lot easier if you spit it out.
Although it is not wise to put hope in others, relatives, friends or close people may be the presence of strength and invisible help, which may help us go further.
Relying on one's own strength is indeed very limited, sometimes try to move forward with strength, it is better than carrying it by yourself, do not have too much psychological burden, and then feed back after achieving what you want.
Ernest Hemingway said in "Farewell,**, "Life always leaves us bruised, but in the end, those wounded places will surely become our strongest places." ”
Don't be afraid of the troubles in life, the person who can really affect our life is yourself, it is also yourself who determines how you grow, everything is fine, we need to keep moving forward, and we will be closer to the life we want. Chicken soup for the soul
This article** comes from the official free genuine gallery of Baijiahao.
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