Love is an eternal topic, and it is the most gorgeous flower in the red dust. When the emotions of men and women are intertwined, it is always full of unknowns and wonders. Some people say that love is a game that requires strategy and skill; Some people say that love is a journey that requires companionship and guidance. But have you ever thought that sometimes, the more "bad" a man behaves in some aspects, it makes a woman fall in love more? This is not a paradox, but a unique philosophy of love.
On a sunny afternoon, Ya and Applejack meet at a café. Applejack is not a good man in the traditional sense of the word, he is rebellious, aloof, and even a little "bad" at times. But it is this kind of Applejack that makes Xiaoya feel an unprecedented attraction. His "badness" is not moral corruption, but a different attitude and style. This made Xiaoya feel that he was different and full of mystery.
As time passes, the relationship between Xiaoya and Applejack gradually warms up. Applejack's "badness" is not only reflected in his appearance and style, but also in his words and deeds. He is not good at words, but he can touch Xiaoya's heartstrings in the most direct way every time. He doesn't commit easily, but when he does, he gives it his all. This kind of imminent, deep and sincere emotion made Xiaoya more and more fascinated by him.
The more "bad" a man is in these 5 areas, the more a woman will love him:
Uninhibited appearance: Men don't have to be overly fashionable, but a man with his own unique style and doesn't follow the crowd is often more likely to attract women's attention. Applejack is exactly that, his outfit is always so eclectic and reveals an indescribable charm.
Challenging conventional thinking: Traditional thinking patterns tend to constrain people's thoughts and behaviors. And a man who dares to challenge conventions and has his own independent opinions will make women feel new and exciting. Applejack always brings new thoughts and experiences to her when she gets along with Xiaoya.
Unavoidable behavior: If a man's behavior can always be easily taken by a woman, then he will lose his sense of mystery in the eyes of women. And a man like Applejack, his demeanor is always unpredictable, and this inadmissibility makes Xiaoya full of curiosity and expectation for him.
Deep heart: A man with a deep heart and not easily revealing emotions is often more attractive to women's desire to explore. Applejack is such a person, he doesn't have many words, but every sentence touches Xiaoya's heartstrings.
Firm will: A strong-willed man who doesn't give up easily will make a woman feel at ease and relied on. Applejack always seems so calm and determined in the face of difficulties, and this strength makes Xiaoya full of trust and admiration for him.
Behind every "bad" trait, Applejack's deep love for Xiaoya is hidden. This kind of love is not a simple sweet word or a superficial promise, but a deep and sincere expression of emotion. Whenever Xiaoya encounters difficulties or unhappy things, Applejack is always the first to show up with her, giving her support and encouragement in his unique way. This silent love makes Xiaoya even more sure that Applejack is the right person in her life.
There is a saying in "Dream of Red Mansions": "If love is deep and longevity, wisdom will hurt." But the story of Applejack and Xiaoya shows us the beauty and tenacity of deep love. Their love is like a mellow old wine, and after the precipitation of time, it becomes more and more fragrant and intoxicating. Whenever she recalls the bits and pieces of the two getting along, Xiaoya will be full of emotion: "It was Ajie who made me understand what true love is, and also made me understand the meaning of cherishing and sticking to it." ”
In this world, there is no absolute good or bad, only suitable and unsuitable. Applejack's "badness" is where his unique charm lies, and it is also one of the important reasons for attracting Xiaoya. They interpret what true love is in their own way, and let us see the most real and moving side of love. Their stories tell us that there is no need to deliberately strive for perfection in love, because true perfection is often hidden in those seemingly imperfect details. As long as we feel and cherish with our hearts, we will definitely be able to find our own happiness and beauty.
I hope that everyone who is looking for love can find the person who matches your soul, even if he is a little "bad", it doesn't matter, because true love is never smooth sailing, but we need to experience, grow, and create a better future together. I hope everyone can have their own happy story, just like Xiaoya and Applejack, walk hand in hand on the road of love, spend the wind and rain together, and share the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life.
End. Shakespeare once said: "Love does not look at what is in front of you, but only looks down on all living beings, overlooking all things in the world." The "badness" of men may be a challenge and subversion of traditional definitions, and a deeper and more sincere expression of emotion. In the world of love, there are no fixed formulas and standards, only the resonance of the heart and the blending of emotions. The more "bad" men behave in these aspects, the more likely they are to tug at women's heartstrings, making them deeply trapped and unable to extricate themselves. Because, true love is never simply black and white, but a colorful and charming world full of infinite possibilities. In this world, "bad" may be a higher level of "good", a kind of emotional sublimation and transcendence.