This is the mentality of middle-aged people for the New Year! As the festival approaches, the sound of firecrackers outside crackles, and the festive atmosphere at home becomes more and more intense. Even if you don't think much about the Chinese New Year in your heart, you can only deal with the atmosphere around you.
The Chinese New Year is indeed a lot of trouble for middle-aged people. The first thing to consider is the problem of the elderly on both sides. Which one should I go to for the Chinese New Year this year? How much money should be given to the old people to be considered decent? You also have to think about what gifts to choose for them, these trivial things can be very troublesome.
Secondly, consider how to pay New Year's greetings to your immediate boss. Is it a personal visit? How many gifts should I bring? Will they accept gifts? There are also children from the boss's family, how many red envelopes should be prepared for the New Year's money? Or simply call ** and send a WeChat greeting?
There is also the need to arrange which relatives to visit. Which relatives must go? Which relatives have been estranged and is it possible not to go? Is it appropriate to consider severing one's family? Will it be awkward to meet in the future? These questions leave you in a dilemma, and you don't know what to do.
Also, consider how to greet colleagues, classmates, and friends. Do you need to make an appointment to get together if you have a good relationship? Is it simple to send a WeChat greeting if the relationship is average? Also consider those old friends who never reply to messages, is it worth continuing to reach?
Finally, you have to think about your child's school and work, as well as your own career plan. Do you continue to struggle or settle for the status quo? These are the questions that give you a headache, but you have to keep your spirits through this lively and busy festival.
Yes, this is the mentality of middle-aged people during the New Year, there are many troubles, but they cannot be avoided.
With so many worries, you might feel a little overwhelmed, but don't worry, everyone faces similar problems. The Chinese New Year is certainly troublesome, but it is also a time of reunion and joy. Although some things can be a headache, it is also something to look forward to when you can be reunited with family and friends and share happiness.
Instead of being troubled by worries, it is better to deal with them positively and welcome the new year with an optimistic attitude. Don't forget that the meaning of the Chinese New Year is not just trouble, but also reunion and happiness. On the eve of a busy Chinese New Year, you might as well take some time to relax, think about the achievements and achievements of the past year, and look forward to the future.
Whether it is family, workplace or social circle, there will be all kinds of troubles and challenges, but it is these challenges that make us stronger and more mature. So, let's face all the difficulties and challenges in life bravely with a positive attitude, and believe that the new year will be even better!
On this special occasion, you may wish to share your thoughts with your family and friends, encourage each other, and spend this warm and happy moment together. Most importantly, don't forget to cherish what you have in front of you and be grateful to everyone around you, because they are the most precious treasure in our lives.
So, no matter how many troubles you face, keep an optimistic attitude and move forward firmly. Because only in this way can we usher in a better tomorrow!