Marriage, for women, means a rebirth, want to have a happy marriage, in addition to the need for both husband and wife to manage carefully, women should start from themselves, learn to help themselves.
Therefore, in marriage, women should not expect men to be grateful, the most important thing you should do is to cherish yourself.
A woman who wants to maintain happiness in her marriage has to do these 3 things right.
A woman in a marriage should not live with an overly critical attitude, it is very easy to be depressed because of disappointment, and it is easier to quarrel with her partner for these reasons.
You have too much expectation of a man, and the more you count on it, the more you will inevitably be disappointed, and when you are disappointed, you will be resentful.
Therefore, treat your husband with no "expectations".
Don't overestimate yourself, your position in a man's heart, the greater your expectations for a man, the greater your disappointment.
A little more flat mentality can really play a role in maintaining the relationship between the two parties.
In addition, we should understand that true love should be based on inner fullness and self-satisfaction.
When you stop pinning your hopes on men, you will naturally start to focus on yourself and develop yourself.
Therefore, instead of expecting a man to love you, it is better to put more energy and time on yourself, dress yourself well, enrich and improve yourself, cherish yourself, and make yourself confident, attractive and irreplaceable.
Learn to love yourself better, expect from yourself, and demand from yourself.
You will find that you yourself will never let you down.
Life in the world, in fact, is not easy, a lifetime of running for life, in the end I don't know what to do.
If you don't treat yourself better, you feel sorry for your life.
You must understand that marriage is not a woman's business alone, sometimes you blindly pay, in exchange for the other party's indifference and habitual attitude, taking everything done to him for granted.
All self-sacrifice is just my own passion, all self-touching only moved myself in the end, but made the other party feel that your contribution is taken for granted, and naturally he will not treat you sincerely.
Therefore, women, from now on, you must learn to be smarter, be selfish, and always believe that the only person in this world who is worthy of your love is yourself.