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The lights are soft, the wine glasses collide, and the laughter is in full swing, and a company's year-end dinner is in full swing. Xiao Wang has just arrived at this company, and today is the first time he has attended such a party.
Mr. Zhang, who was sitting on the main seat, raised his wine glass with a smile and said to Xiao Wang: "Xiao Wang, come, toast you, I think you have a good amount of wine!" ”
Xiao Wang smiled a little embarrassedly and blurted out: "*My alcohol consumption is okay, so-so." ”
Gotta get it, you're too modest! Mr. Zhang smiled and said, "I've seen you drink **, it's a lot!" ”
Xiao Wang waved his hand modestly again, thinking that Mr. Zhang might have won the prize.
After sitting down, Master Li, who was sitting at the wine table, said with a smile: "Xiao Wang, the leader praises you so much, you can accept it straightforwardly, don't be too modest." When I first joined the company, the leader said the same thing about me, and I honestly said, 'Thank you for the compliment'.
Later, I thought about it, it was too cheap, and I always felt like a ridge boy who had never seen the world. ”
Xiao Wang listened and looked at Master Li with some doubts. Master Li continued, "On such occasions, we are not trying to please the leader, but we must also learn to handle the relationship skillfully and show our charm. ”
So what should I do? Xiao Wang couldn't help but ask.
Master Li smiled and said, "I have observed other excellent veteran employees, and their response skills in this situation are not simple.
For example, one should respond humbly and demonstrate self-knowledge; "Thank you for the compliment, it was a very good mood to work with everyone, so I had a few more drinks! "Second, you should subtly express your personal level; Rather than drinking, I will work harder at work and improve my business skills! You can lead the conversation to your work and express your enthusiasm for the company. Of course, the most important thing is to be neutral and reasonable. ”
Xiao Wang suddenly realized and nodded: "I understand, it seems that I must listen to your teachings carefully!" Learn well in workplace relationships. ”
That's right! Master Li affirmed, "In business, in social situations, we need wisdom to win the favor of others without losing ourselves." I believe that if you practice a lot, you will soon be able to master this skill. ”
Xiao Wang suddenly realized and nodded: "I understand, it seems that I must listen to your teachings carefully!" Learn well in workplace relationships. ”
That's right! Master Li affirmed, "In business, in social situations, we need wisdom to win the favor of others without losing ourselves." I believe that if you practice a lot, you will soon be able to master this skill. ”
The moment Xiao Wang raised his glass, a trace of joy surged in his heart. He knew that in this dinner, he gained not only delicious food and wine, but also valuable life experience.
From now on, he will continue to learn in the workplace and take his relationship to the next level.