My name is Liu Hao, and I am a helpful person, since I was a child, I have always habitually helped those around me who need help. My family background is not wealthy, but it is harmonious and happy. My father, Liu Qiang, was a hard-working migrant worker, and my mother, Li Cui, was the breadwinner of the family, selling vegetables to make ends meet. In such a family environment, I have learned to cherish every kindness and help.
However, as I grew up, I gradually realized that not all favors can help, and sometimes, helping the wrong ones can cause problems for myself and others.
It was a sunny weekend, and I had just come home from work to spend time with my parents. At this time, my friend Zhang Qiang, who had been my friend for many years, suddenly found me, and he was full of sadness and seemed to be in great trouble. He confided in me that he had a lot of debts for gambling and was now being chased and desperate. Seeing my long-time friend in trouble, I decided to help him without hesitation. I lent him my hard-earned savings in the hope that he would get through it.
However, what I didn't expect was that this help left me in a huge trap. Zhang Qiang did not repay the loan as promised, but deceived me again and again, leaving me in more and more debt. I realized that I had made a big mistake and that I shouldn't have trusted others easily, let alone put myself in trouble.
I tried to find Zhang Qiang to solve the problem, but he has disappeared without a trace. I had to accept that I had made mistakes and that I had to live with the consequences. During that time, I seemed to have fallen into bad luck, and my work and life were greatly affected. I realized that you should also be principled in helping others, otherwise you will bring endless problems to yourself.
Just when I was in trouble, my parents found out what was going on with me. Instead of blaming me, they encouraged me to be brave and help me share the debt. With the help of my parents, I gradually got out of the predicament and regained my confidence in life. This experience made me deeply realize that helping others and being unlucky is not groundless.
Reflecting on my past, I realized that there are three kinds of favors that cannot be helped: one is the help involving money, because money can often test people's hearts; the second is to be busy against principles, because this will put oneself in endless trouble; The third is to be busy beyond your ability, because this will often put you under unbearable burdens.
This experience has made me grow a lot, and I have learned to say no to favors that I shouldn't help and focus on what I can and what I can't do. I also learned that true help is not about giving blindly, but about giving the right guidance and support to others at the right time.
Through my stories, I hope that readers will realize that helping others also requires methods and principles. While helping others, we need to learn to protect ourselves and avoid getting into unnecessary difficulties. Let us use kindness and wisdom to write our life story, and let love and help become the most beautiful scenery in this world.