Hello everyone, I'm Huang Xiaomeow.
When Yang Zi was young, her appearance was not outstanding. (It's not that it's not good, but it's not outstanding in the entertainment industry where there are so many beautiful women).
When she was 12 years old, filming "Family with Children", Song Dandan also persuaded her that there are too many beautiful girls in the circle, and we are not beautiful enough, so don't act ......
Yang Zi also revealed that because of her appearance, she used to have low self-esteem.
But she didn't give up acting because of her looks.
She knew that she was not a big beauty in the traditional sense, so she worked harder to improve her acting skills, spoke with strength, and finally walked out of her own way and became a popular flower of the post-90s.
In the entertainment industry, although appearance can add points, but if you have no beauty, you will definitely not go far.
is like a baby, who once relied on beauty to kill all sides, but there is no work that makes people applaud.
Now she has no capital blessing, just like the waves receding, and the sediment is visible.
Yang Zi knew that her appearance was difficult to change, she concentrated on polishing her acting skills, calmed down, started from a small role, worked steadily, and honed herself step by step.
She has always focused on doing what she can, gradually expanding her circle of influence, becoming more and more confident, and her acting career is getting wider and wider.
If you blindly complain about your appearance and the environment, you will achieve nothing.
Accept what can't be changed, and strive to do what can be changed, so that things can be done well.
In the movie "28-Year-Old Minor", Ni Ni is beautiful and self-aware.
She manages her beauty with all her heart, puts on makeup, sprays perfume before her boyfriend gets up, dresses herself up beautifully, and makes a loving breakfast.
has been in love for 10 years, and I thought that this would be in exchange for her boyfriend's marriage proposal, but the reality gave her a hard blow.
Her boyfriend was tired of her idleness and proposed to break up with her.
In "The Legend of Zhen Huan", Zhen Huan once said: Li Bai said that if you do things to others, you can get a good time.
The meaning is: How long can you be happy and loved if you just serve and please others by your appearance? In addition to color, there must be something else, and feelings can go further.
Zhen Huan knows this truth very well, she constantly improves herself, and she can always surprise Fat Orange.
Ni Ni in the movie, her mind returned to the age of 17, and at that best age, she focused on her favorite paintings, persevering for her dreams and love.
She didn't overmanage her appearance, but dressed very casually.
Pour your time and energy into your dreams, and your career will grow better and better.
When she felt confident from the bottom of her heart, her whole person was relaxed and bright, and her boyfriend began to appreciate her again.
If there is only beauty, after all, the space hole is boring, and beauty will become ugly and old with age, only the inner richness and certainty, two people can appreciate each other and go further.
I've been a beautiful girl since I was a child.
In their 20s, they can step on pointy stilettos every day, wear thin clothes on cold days, spend more than half a month's salary on a fashionable dress, and spend a lot of time tossing ...... on their faces
As long as others think I'm beautiful, it's worth everything.
Regardless of the fact that wearing high heels for a long time causes the thumb to turn out, wearing too little and shivering with cold, and over-skinning causes sensitive skin, the most terrible thing is that you have an empty appearance, which does not bring much confidence.
On the contrary, due to the excessive attention to appearance, there is no time and energy for self-growth.
It's not that you can't focus on your appearance, but if you spend too much time, energy, and money on your appearance, you will ignore the inside and often put the cart before the horse.
Does appearance really matter?
In the past, I thought it was very important, but after I turned 30, I felt that it was not so important.
After all, it's not about eating with your face, as long as you keep it neat and fresh, it's enough.
Over the years, I have been insisting on reading and writing, focusing on self-growth, slowly improving my knowledge, opening up the pattern, getting rid of the aesthetic of the male gaze, reducing material desires, and learning to correctly examine my own beauty.
Now, I can walk confidently in the simplest clothes and with the cheapest bag on my back.
I love who I am.
Replace vanity and comparison with acceptance and appreciation, and finally live out yourself step by step.
In the process of women's growth, many things are mirages, which seem to be worth it, **You go to pursue, but it is actually a waste of growth energy, and the last one is empty, what do you think?
Female growth Do you like Yang Zi? About the author:Huang Xiaomeow, a mother who loves reading, writing, and sports in third-tier cities, focuses on reading, writing, and growing up dry goods. I want to be a woman with a scented soul.