In 2000, the honest and honest Lu Bing and the young and beautiful Tang Yulu tied the knot, after marriage, their husband sang with their wives, and their small life was prosperous, and their feelings were getting better day by day, they both liked children very much, and they worked very hard to have children, looking forward to the arrival of their little life.
However, no matter how hard they tried, Tang Yulu's stomach never moved, and after a while, the two went to the hospital for an examination, but there was no problem.
In this way, it has lasted for six or seven years, and there have been more rumors outside, but the relationship between Lu Bing and Tang Yulu has always been very stable, and Lu Bing often comforts Tang Yulu and tells her to relax, even if the two of them are physically fine, there will definitely be children, but now that fate has not arrived, don't mind what others say, even if there are no children in the future, he will always love her.
Tang Yulu was very moved, but she didn't give birth to a boy and a half girl for her husband, she felt very uncomfortable, she dreamed of being a mother.
In the eighth year of marriage, just when they both wanted to give up, Tang Yulu found out that she was pregnant, when they learned the good news, their whole family was overjoyed, Tang Yulu even pulled her husband to the mother and baby store to buy a lot of baby products, and they were immersed in the joy of being parents.
After Tang Yulu became pregnant, she became the first-class protection object of the whole family, Lu Bing would make food for her every day, thinking of ways to make her happy, they often discussed the child's appearance and personality together, and even, they had already thought of the name of the child in advance, and planned the child's future life, everything was so beautiful!
Time flies quickly, in a blink of an eye, Tang Yulu is already three months pregnant, one morning, after Tang Yulu got up, she felt dizzy, nauseous and wanted to vomit, but she thought it was just a normal pregnancy reaction, so she didn't care, just leaned on the chair and sat down, Lu Bing saw this, brought her a glass of warm water, and wanted her to relieve her symptoms.
However, I didn't expect Tang Yulu's headache to get worse and worse, he couldn't hold the water cup in his hand, and he fell directly to the ground with a "clang", falling into pieces, and the person was about to lose consciousness.
The doctor immediately arranged for Tang Yulu to have a brain CT examination, and it was found that her cerebellum had been severely hemorrhaged, that is, "brain herniation", and her condition was critical, and she had to undergo craniotomy immediately, otherwise her life would be in danger.
At that time, Lu Bing was already so frightened that he couldn't figure out how his wife, who had always been very healthy, suddenly became seriously ill, he muttered to himself, and was about to cry: "How can this be, how can it be like ......this."”
Seeing this, the doctor explained: "Your wife suffers from congenital cerebrovascular malformation, which usually looks like an ordinary person, but because your wife is pregnant, the fetus begins to grab nutrients from the mother, and when the maternal nutrition is consumed too much, it will lead to the rupture of cerebellar blood vessels. ”
The doctor also told Lu Bing that if he didn't do surgery quickly, the blood clot in the skull would compress the cranial nerve, which would cause S death.
Lu Bing couldn't accept this fact, and immediately collapsed to the ground, he burst into tears and said painfully: "Yes, let's do the operation, doctor, please save my wife, she is still so young, there is still a long way to go." ”
The doctor looked at this helpless man, although he couldn't bear it, but the doctor's duty made him have to say: "Craniotomy is a major operation, and the risk factor is great, your wife may become a vegetative person after the operation, you must be mentally prepared." "The doctor gave him a critical illness notice.
At this time, Lu Bing had completely lost the ability to think, he only knew that he must save his wife at all costs, and the operation was urgent, he trembled his hands, signed his name on the critical illness notice and the advance notice of surgery, and watched his wife being slowly pushed into the operating room by the doctor, his brain was blank, he felt that the sky had turned gray, and his heart was clenched.
Lu Bing was guarding the door of the operating room, not eating or drinking, staring at the red timetable above, how he hoped that the operation could end sooner, so that his wife could suffer less as soon as possible, but he hoped that time could stand still, so that at least his wife was still lying alive in the operating room, he prayed to God: God, please make sure that my wife is safe, even if you use my life to replace her.
Time passed minute by minute, his hanging heart, finally put it down in the middle of the night, as the door of the operating room slowly opened, he immediately rushed up, the doctor told him that the operation was very successful, they had removed all the blood vessels of Tang Yulu's brain malformation, and removed the blood clot in the brain, the child in the stomach was not affected, and in a day or two, Tang Yulu could wake up.
Lu Bing held the doctor's hand and kept thanking him, and then he realized that he hadn't eaten anything for a day and a night, and he knew that his wife was fine, and he came back to life.
He looked at his wife on the hospital bed, in just one day, his wife was full of various tubes, just yesterday, they were still looking forward to a better life after the birth of the child, he couldn't help but wet his eyes, gently held his wife's hand and said: "It's okay, the operation was successful, the child is fine, in a few days, I will take you home." ”
However, God did not intend to let this poor woman go, 4 days have passed, she still has no signs of awakening, the doctor after a comprehensive examination, helplessly told Lu Bing that Tang Yulu has become a vegetative person who only breathes and has no consciousness, but fortunately, the child in her belly is still safe.
Lu Bing fell into despair, but he knew that he couldn't fall down, because his wife and children needed him, so he held back his grief and asked the doctor: "Is it still possible for my wife to wake up?" Doctor, what about the baby in her belly, please help us, I can't lose them. ”
The doctor was touched by Lu Bing, he explained: "Her situation is very complicated, maybe, she will wake up in the next second, maybe, she will not wake up for the rest of her life, this depends on her personal will, as for the child, we will observe again." ”
Lu Bing understands that what he can do now is to do his best to take care of his wife and wait for her to wake up, even if she can't wake up for the rest of her life, he will always never abandon her.
Every day, Lu Bing wiped his body and turned over for Tang Yulu every two hours, because his wife was pregnant, he was even more cautious, for fear of hurting his wife and children, and he was tired and sweating profusely every time, but as long as his wife and children were still there, he felt that his home was still there, and everything was worth it.
In this way, seeing his wife's belly getting bigger day by day, and the child was pregnant until he was six months old, when he wanted to breathe a sigh of relief, the doctor gave him another blow.
The doctor told Lu Bing that although it is no longer a precedent for a vegetative mother to give birth to a child, Tang Yulu's body is very weak, and as the child gets older and older, the requirements for the mother will become higher and higher, and it is very dangerous to continue to conceive.
Yes, even if it is a pregnant woman who is in good health, it is very hard to conceive a baby in October, not to mention that Tang Yulu has just undergone major surgery, how can her body withstand such a toss?
Lu Bing's heart struggled infinitely, he wanted to keep the child, this child, they had been looking forward to it for too long, he dreamed of having a child of his own, his wife's love for the child, he saw it in his eyes, if the child was removed, after his wife woke up, how should he face her? How could she bear such a blow, he didn't dare to imagine what his wife would be sad about, but if she didn't take the child, she might lose her life.
If he didn't have a wife, he couldn't live at all, he loved this woman deeply, and when faced with the difficult choice between his wife and children, he was so confused that he didn't know what to do.
He didn't sleep all night, he held his wife's hand, looked at her face, and said to himself: "Wife, I love this child too, he is the crystallization of our love, but now that you are sick, I want to save you, if you agree to take the child away, blink your eyes." ”
He knew that his wife was already in a vegetative state, and it was impossible to have any response to his words, and he did this just to open his heart and find a trace of comfort, and sure enough, his wife did not respond at all.
He said, "Or if you don't agree, you blink?" ”
This time, Tang Yulu actually tried hard to blink, but she couldn't do it, but her eyelids did move slightly, Lu Bing was very excited, but he thought he was wrong.
So, I asked again, and got a response from my wife, this time, he saw it really clearly, and he immediately called the doctor, but the doctor told him that it might just be a muscular nerve reaction.
He was a little frustrated, after a night of consideration, he decided to take the child away and save his wife's life, early the next morning, when the doctor was rounding, he told the doctor the final decision, just when they were discussing the surgical plan, suddenly, Tang Yulu's eyes shed a line of tears.
Lu Bing couldn't hold back any longer, he cried and said to his wife: "Wife, are you reluctant to have this child, can you hear what we say, you answer me, give me a little response, if you don't want to, just blink your eyes." ”
At this time, Tang Yulu moved his eyelids again with difficulty, and the doctor felt unbelievable when he saw this scene, he was moved by Tang Yulu's maternal love.
Even if Tang Yulu has become a vegetative person, she still doesn't want others to hurt her child, what a strong maternal love this is!
And this time, Lu Bing realized how reluctant and loving his wife was to this child, and he decided at the moment that no matter what the outcome, he would keep the child, and the doctor also said that they would respect his decision and go all out to help this poor family.
Although the front is full of unknowns and twists and turns, Lu Bing and Tang Yulu are fearless, and they decide to make a bet for themselves and their children to keep up with the sky.
Tang Yulu had a lung infection after the craniotomy, in order to avoid the phlegm that would clog her throat and cause suffocation, the doctor had to cut her throat, which was a huge challenge for her, everyone was worried that she would not survive, but she survived strongly.
In order to ensure the normal development of the child, the doctor made a hole in her esophagus and connected a hose, so that food could flow into Tang Yulu's stomach through the hose.
Originally, the hospital had a meal specially prepared for vegetative people, but in order to let his wife eat more nutritious food, Lu Bing would go to the vegetable market every day to buy fresh meat, eggs, fish, and various vegetables, cook them, beat them into a paste, and then use a special syringe to inject them into his wife's stomach.
As the fetus gets bigger and bigger, Lu Bing has more difficulty turning over and wiping his wife, but he doesn't feel hard, but is willing to eat, every day, he will put his ear on his wife's belly, listen to the heartbeat of the fetus, and unconsciously raise the corners of his mouth.
And Tang Yulu is not easy, her physical discomfort has made her very weak, although she can't make any response to the outside world, but the fetal movement and heartbeat of the child in her womb are the biggest motivation for her to live.
Both husband and wife are working hard and full of hope for the future.
Finally, on the morning of Tang Yulu's 36+4 pregnancy week, Lu Bing, as usual, listened to his wife's belly, and found something unusual, he called the doctor, and the doctor found that Tang Yulu began to contract, yes, she was going to give birth.
In view of Tang Yulu's physical condition, the doctor decided to choose a cesarean section for her, which was another great challenge for Tang Yulu, a vegetative mother.
Lu Bing and his family were waiting anxiously outside the operating room, suddenly, a loud baby cry came, the child was born successfully, it was a boy, the mother and child were safe, their whole family hugged each other, crying with joy, this is the child born by Tang Yulu at the risk of his life, it is their hope and future.
The child has only 3 due to insufficient nutrition4 pounds, but the physical indicators are normal, and then, the child was arranged by the doctor and lived in the incubator.
Looking at this soft and glutinous, hard-won son, Lu Bing was full of emotion in his heart, knowing that the child was safe, Lu Bing didn't have time to be happy, and immediately rushed to the ward to take care of his wife, he stroked his wife's face with tears in his eyes and said: "Wife, you are awesome, we have a child, he is very healthy, thank you!" ”
Hearing this, a miracle happened, Tang Yulu slowly opened her eyes, she had been in a coma for six months, she burst into tears, she woke up, Lu Bing couldn't believe it, happiness came too suddenly, and he immediately called the doctor.
When the doctor heard the news, he was shocked, when he saw Tang Yulu and checked her body again, they found that Tang Yulu really woke up, the doctor was amazed, they couldn't explain it, perhaps, it was the mother's instinct that woke her up, and the doctor said: "This is really a medical miracle!" ”
After waking up, Tang Yulu also began to increase milk, Lu Bing considered that she was not in good health and was afraid of affecting her condition, so she planned to feed her son milk powder, but when he took the milk powder and wanted to soak in milk, Tang Yulu blinked desperately, she knew that breastfeeding was the best for the child.
Lu Bing understood her thoughts, and he obeyed her wishes, and Tang Yulu calmed down.
She insisted on breastfeeding for four days, and finally dispelled this idea because her body could not support it, but her motherly spirit touched everyone.
After Tang Yulu was confined, they handed over the child to their family to take home to raise, and Tang Yulu was also transferred to the **hospital, and in order to treat Tang Yulu, Lu Bing had gone bankrupt, but he never regretted it, because the money was gone, he could still earn it, as long as his wife and children were still there, life was infinite hope.
*Every ** project in the hospital is extremely difficult for Tang Yulu, but every time she can't persevere, Lu Bing will show her the child's **, she can always overcome it, this is probably the power of maternal love.
Tang Yulu is great, she created a medical miracle with maternal love, and all of this is inseparable from her husband Lu Bing's inseparability, when kindness meets kindness, God will be moved, and miracles will come as the times require!
Now, their child is 14 years old, very smart and healthy, and Tang Yulu's condition is getting better day by day, and their family lives a happy life!
Conclusion:
Whitman once said: How similar mothers are all over the world, their hearts are always the same, they all have an extremely innocent heart.
Mothers are the purest and most selfless people in the world, from October pregnancy to upbringing, all permeated with the mother's hard work, their prayers are the same, only hope that their children can be safe and happy.
Mother's love is great and ordinary, when we encounter wind and rain outside, mother's love always comes quietly, giving us the strength to go on.
In fact, father's love is also great, but father's love teaches us how to be strong, while mother's love is more delicate.
Raising a child is 100 years old, often worried about ninety-nine, no matter where we are, parents are always concerned about us, when we grow up, away from home, parents are slowly getting older, their wish is very simple, just want the child to come home often to see, even if it is just to talk, eat a meal, can also make them happy.
Parents are here, there is still a way to come in life, parents go, there is only a way back in life, cherish the days with your parents, and often go home to see!