Parents of these three types of families must pay attention to the fact that your child is already sick.
The first type of narcissistic parent.
Narcissistic parents will unconsciously extradite or force their views on their children, so that the children always feel that they are the dominant party. This kind of child will gradually lose his sense of self-existence and will slowly close himself off.
The second type of complaining parent.
We often see a lot of parents, relatives and friends around us get together and keep complaining, this teacher is not good, that child is not good, this thing is not fair, that thing is unreasonable, and so on. Over time, the child will feel that this society is not good, and if my growth is hurt, he will magnify all the damage. Children from complaining families are most likely to have anxiety and depression, and children have a variety of mental illnesses.
The third type of apathetic family.
The most terrible thing about a family is the long cold war. You ignore me, I ignore you, there is no energy interaction between each other, there is no sense of happiness. A child who has been in this environment for a long time loses his creativity and activity.
We often see a kind of child, even if the joy is not happy, the pain is not painful, the facial expression is always the kind of cold or unresponsive, there must be a pair of indifferent parents behind this kind of child!
Parents of these three types of families must pay attention to the fact that your child is already sick. There is only one antidote, that is, to turn your family into a harmonious family, into a mutual-aid family, and into a family with energy, otherwise no medicine can help the child.
Pay attention to teachers, grow with you, and be wise parents.
Zhao Liyun, National Senior Family Education Instructor, Scholar, Writer, 16 years of parenting experience, 10,000+ family education cases, 100,000+ course beneficiary families escort your children's learning life, parent-child education, and mental health.