The problem of singles has not yet been resolved, and three major anomalies have emerged in the rural areas
Interpreting the Rural Phenomenon 1Number of bride price packages.
The high bride price makes rural weddings a luxury, and some people even make profits by defrauding the high bride price. Using matchmakers to deceive in the name of marriage, and divorce one month after receiving a high bride price, the victim is not only heartbroken and empty, but also the bride price cannot be recovered. This phenomenon of using marriage for personal gain directly touches the warmth of people's hearts and shows the distorted side of rural social relations.
In the countryside, every red and white happy event,"Garage bride price"It's almost a must-have"Standard", but this traditional custom is disliked by many young people. It may be that their families are not wealthy, or it may be that they have a different view of these materialistic marriage customs. During the period of social transition, this phenomenon may reflect the scrutiny of traditional practices by the younger generation and the need for greater tolerance and understanding in rural societies.
2) Not a daughter-in-law, but a grandmother.
The only child teenager is pampered and enjoys it at home"Clothes come to stretch out their hands, and food comes to open their mouths"treatment. Not only do they lack the ability to live independently, but they are also unaware of their family responsibilities. Resting during the day and resting at night, the in-laws have become indispensable in their lives"Babysitter"。This phenomenon of treating marriage and family as a continuation of the original family exposes the social status quo of children's excessive dependence on maternal love and lack of sense of responsibility.
In rural households,"Leave me alone"The feeling means that the child is spoiled for a long time and lacks independent thinking and life skills. In response to this phenomenon, family members need to think together and clarify their respective responsibilities and roles.
3 - Young people like to go crazy.
Marriage is no longer the first choice for young people, who prefer to devote their energy and time to the development of their careers rather than accompanying their children to grow up. In the face of the efforts and expectations of the elderly for their children to pass on the lineage, the young people are based on:"Social pressure"with"Inability to raise"Considering the postponement of the birth plan, I chose to do"Little children"。The transfer of family custody to parents and the intergenerational support of children has become a reality. This phenomenon highlights the great changes in the concept of motherhood among young people in contemporary rural areas, and also reflects the practical dilemmas and entanglements in the social background.
In the face of social changes and economic development, it is inevitable that young people's concept of marriage and childbearing will change. They pay more attention to their personal rights and quality of life, no longer blindly follow the trend of having children, and are more willing to work hard for their future. The emergence of this phenomenon must arouse the attention of society and guide young people to establish a correct concept of family and assume their due responsibilities and obligations.
Urban-rural coexistence.
These three anomalies are not confined to rural areas, but also exist in urban areas. In the process of urbanization, the pluralism and collision of marriage and family concepts have highlighted these problems. The differences between urban and rural areas have caused their own social phenomena, and the bride price system, family conflicts and conceptions of childbirth in cities are also worthy of reflection.
In the city, the fast-paced modern urban life and fierce social competition have brought great changes to young people's concepts of marriage and family. Young people in urban areas pay more attention to personal development and growth, and their motherhood is more rational and prudent. The demographic dividend of the city is gradually disappearing, and the sense of responsibility and family concept of the younger generation is also quietly changing.
In the context of the new era, the phenomenon of marriage and family in urban and rural areas is interconnected, symbiotic and co-prosperous, and each presents different characteristics and problems. It is necessary to strengthen the interaction between urban and rural areas and jointly explore ways and means to solve these problems. Only by understanding and respecting the cultural traditions and social realities of different regions can we better promote development and social progress.
Reflections and conclusions.
Today, with the rapid development of society, the three major anomalies in rural areas are not just individual cases, but epitome of the transformation of social structure and value orientation. The bride price system, the imbalance of family relations, and the change of the concept of motherhood not only require reflection and reflection in rural society, but also need interaction and exchange between urban and rural areas, so as to explore a new model of marriage and family suitable for the changes of the times.
Each member of the family must assume his or her own responsibilities and obligations to establish a harmonious and stable family relationship. Parents should fulfill their responsibility to raise their children and guide them to establish correct family concepts and values; Young people should cherish their families and be responsible for their future lives, not only to take care of their parents, but also to take on the mission of inheriting the family tradition.
The three major anomalies in rural areas tell us that the concept of marriage and family is constantly being updated, the concept of childbirth is also changing, and the society needs more understanding and tolerance in order to achieve family happiness and social harmony. Exchanges and learning between urban and rural areas can open up new ideas and ways to solve these problems, so we must work together to build a better family and society.