The problem of singles in rural areas has triggered three major anomalies, and the social response is emotional
After improving public construction in rural areas and improving people's living conditions, there are still many worrying problems. Although many peasants live in modern houses, living conditions, and even drive cars, it is still difficult to find suitable wives. Every time I go back to the village, I can see a group of bachelors playing poker around the road, chatting and chatting, which is simply a kind of emotional intelligence station. In recent decades, the development of rural society and the continuous improvement of the living conditions of the peasants have not only failed to fundamentally improve the problem of singleness, but have also produced three major deformities that are painful.
The first reason is hatred of the rich and jealousy. Some people are reluctant to give away what they have, even if they make money, which will cause others to be jealous. It is also a common occurrence all around us: someone who has made a fortune and built a luxurious three-story house and bought a luxury car that costs millions. For a village, it is very good to have a car of more than 200,000 yuan, let alone a luxury car of more than 100,000 yuan. However, the car was always broken and could not be driven. The car stopped in front of his house. Whenever he tried to drive out, the car would constantly sound a warning that the tire pressure was too low. However, there was nothing wrong with the car, and the experts couldn't detect anything wrong. When the monitor was installed, they didn't know it was a deliberate release. This is the so-called "hatred of the rich"! In addition, some low-income people tend to be teased by others, but many don't realize the importance of it. In our case, there was a similar case where a conflict arose because we couldn't stand being teased, and it was finally resolved through mediation.
The second problem is to compare with each other and show off to each other. Many farmers who were originally not well-off will use this way to influence others after buying a new electric car. A lot of people want to follow the trend and want to pretend to be forced, but they don't have that much money, and if they have that much money, they will definitely buy four wheels. Some people, even if they don't have that much money, have to pretend to be rich, just like when someone buys a new phone, others will follow suit. On our side, there is a farmer who bought the latest mobile phone with his own rice, and he doesn't have to worry about it for a year! However, after returning home, he was reprimanded by his grandfather.
The third is rumor-mongering. In the countryside, it doesn't matter if you don't have money, there are more rich people. However, the most worrying thing is that rumors will always spread around. Nowadays, many farmers are no longer engaged in farming, and in addition to working outside to earn money, they also like to play cards and chatter together, and the content of the conversation often turns to some gossip. The farmer's job is very varied, sometimes he can work for a day, sometimes he can work for several days. In this case, everyone will get together, chat, chat. But often, the farther the rumor spreads, the original meaning changes. In many cases, the rumors are simply nonsense! This makes it unbearable for many people and does not even dare to return to the countryside! That's why people fall into contemplation. Of course, I don't want this kind of thing to happen around you again, I firmly believe that under the leadership of **, we will eventually move towards a comprehensive well-off, towards common prosperity, and the countryside will be more prosperous. I don't know if you have any comments and opinions on the above issues, and you are welcome to comment.
This paper analyzes the three "abnormalities" in China's rural society, such as "hatred of the rich", "jealousy", "comparison" and "rumor-mongering". In real life, there are many problems, which are not only painful, but also seriously threaten the harmony and stability of rural society.
First of all, due to the influence of factors such as hatred of the rich and jealousy, it has led to a relatively serious social contradiction. Those who can afford to make money have to hide their possessions and live in fear. They do not dare to expose their property to the public, for fear of being looked upon and targeted. The emergence of such a mentality not only makes the population fear their own financial situation, but also has a negative impact on the stability and harmony of society as a whole.
Secondly, the fashion of showing off and showing off has put people on a path of no return. The development of the countryside and the rise of the modern mode of survival have given birth to a kind of frenzied pursuit of material wealth. Due to financial constraints, many people do not hesitate to borrow or sacrifice food in order to obtain short-term honor and pleasure. Such a "comparison" not only exacerbates people's luxury and waste, but also increases people's economic and living burdens. Moreover, it is easier to have an impulsive psychology with others, which can lead to the breakdown of interpersonal relationships.
Fourth, the false reports of rumors have damaged the reputation and credibility of the people. In the modern rural society, with the development of social economy, people's attention to gossip is also increasing, resulting in a large number of "out of nothing" rumors. Such rumors will not only damage mutual friendship and mutual trust, but also cause real distress and damage to some people. Rural communities should strengthen their control over online rumors to prevent their spread from having adverse consequences for social security and interpersonal interactions.
In short, this paper puts forward the "three abnormalities" in rural areas in China, and puts forward corresponding countermeasures. Hatred of the rich, jealousy, comparison, and spreading rumors have seriously interfered with the harmony and stability of rural society, and have had a certain negative impact on the health and development of individual psychology. It is hoped that the vast number of rural areas will strengthen education in civilization, carry forward positive energy, and create a harmonious and stable social atmosphere so that the broad masses of peasants can live and work in peace and contentment.