In relationships, crying poor and showing off can sometimes be used as a strategy to cope with different situations. Proper crying and showing off can help us reduce our troubles, protect ourselves, and earn the respect of others.
First of all, crying for poverty in front of relatives and friends can avoid unnecessary jealousy and strife. When getting along with relatives and friends, appropriate self-ridicule or weakness can relieve each other's pressure and avoid conflicts due to economic conditions. This cry of poverty is not really to appear poor, but to avoid being hurt by jealousy and to maintain intimacy.
However, in front of strangers, a modest display may win the respect and approval of others. Social competition is fierce, and people often judge a person's ability and worth based on their external performance. Therefore, properly showcasing one's strengths and achievements can enhance one's image and earn the respect of others. But it should be noted that this kind of ostentation is not to appear arrogant or show off wealth, but to show one's strength and ability.
But it's important to stress that crying poor and showing off are just one of social skills, and they are just a strategy and not a real value. Excessive use of these techniques can backfire and lose the trust and respect of others. Therefore, when applying these techniques, we need to be authentic and honest and not deviate from our own values and reality.
Most importantly, we need to stand up for our beliefs and values, whether in front of friends and family or strangers. Only when the heart is strong and true can you truly win the respect and trust of others. In interpersonal communication, we need to be flexible in using different communication strategies, but at the same time, we need to be authentic and honest and be a trustworthy person.
Celebrate the New Year in peace and auspiciousness