When a woman loves a man, she thinks of giving everything to the other person and not caring about anything.
Whether it's money or youth, they are willing to pay! That's great!
But there are also some women who, after a failed relationship, regret it very much. I feel sorry for not being at the beginning, why did I have to be so sincere to him in the first place? It's just blind.
These efforts will make women look like a joke. It's not worth it.
In fact, before you love others, you must love yourself. This is the most sensible.
No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, a smart woman will not do 3 things for a man.
01 I won't put my mother's family in for the sake of a man
In reality, the life of husband and wife sometimes is in the interests of some games.
For example, if it involves two elderly people, it may be a game.
Matters involving large sums of money may also be gambling.
Because every man has an eye. Just because you don't count doesn't mean the other party doesn't count.
It's a very stupid thing to put your own mother's house on casually.
Not only did he not get love, but he also got the contempt of the other party.
Here's a counterexample. I know an acquaintance, and as soon as I got married, I packed my parents and took the children with me.
Then the man's parents were beautiful and invisible, and they didn't contribute money or effort. I also work outside to make money.
Then the bitterness was eaten by his parents, but the happiness was not enjoyed.
In reality, don't think that if you pack your mother's family and bring it, men will cherish it.
What is too easy to get is bound to not be cherished. It's human nature.
02 I won't put my career into it for the sake of a man
In reality, smart women rarely have a "love brain" in marriage, and they rarely have a full love drink.
They know that the economic foundation is everything. I will try my best to develop my ability to make money.
In this way, the right to speak in the family will be stronger. And you have more choice.
One of my best friends, her husband after marriage, always let her stay at home.
In fact, her husband's income is very high, and it is more than enough to support her. The quality of life is not low.
But she didn't. I worked hard, I studied hard, and now my income is quite good.
To tell the truth, she can still live well without her husband.
In reality, a smart woman will always think about herself and rationally.
I have always grasped the career and academic opportunities firmly. Rather than just backing down.
This is to yourself, leaving a way back.
03 I won't discipline myself for the sake of men
In reality, some women have a lot of rules and regulations in their minds.
Men believe what they say. In the end, he disciplined himself, and he was very well-behaved.
But in fact, he lost his character, even himself.
It's hard to have a quality of life.
For example, some women, after receiving the discipline of their husbands and mothers-in-law, are reluctant to spend any money on themselves. Then she became a yellow-faced woman.
I can't have any hobbies and hobbies, and I spend all my time cooking three dishes and one soup, all kinds of housework. The heart is full of resentment.
Is it really worth it?
Are people really happy when they live without self and time for themselves?
In reality, in the relationship between husband and wife, if women do not know how to protect themselves, they always cooperate and pay unconditionally.
Then, in the end, either you are too tired to do it; Or, it's so aggrieved that it can't be done.
These are the results of extreme effort.
Please take care of yourself.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program