In marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is important, but as women, we must also maintain independence and self-esteem at all times. Here are three things, even if the relationship between husband and wife is good, don't do it for a man easily, especially the last one, otherwise you may regret it for the rest of your life.
1. Don't give up the ability to make money for the sake of men.
No matter how good the relationship is, women should maintain their earning power. Don't easily believe a man's promise of "I will support you", because once you quit your job and are busy for the sake of your family and children, he may think that you are enjoying the blessings at home and take your efforts for granted.
Only you can make money yourself, which is the confidence to speak in your marriage, and it is also the basis for you to maintain your independence and self-worth.
2. Don't let men get free stuff easily.
Whether it's feelings or money, free things are often never cherished. Of course, it is right to pay for the other person in the relationship, but if you are just giving wholeheartedly, and he does nothing, the more you give, the more he will think that you can't do without him, and his attitude towards you may become worse and worse.
So you have to make him understand that your love needs feedback, and you will only be better to him if he is good to you.
3. Don't pour all your love into a man.
Loving yourself is just as important as loving others. Don't pour all your love out on a man, but learn to love yourself. Take seven points for your lover and leave three points for yourself, this is true.
Be prepared for him to get off at any time, don't love too much, and you can make sure you can get out of it with all your body. Only when you love yourself first can you love others better.
The above three pieces of advice apply to more than 80% of women. I hope that all women can seriously consider these three pieces of advice and not wait for something to happen before they regret it.
Remember, maintaining independence and self-worth is a woman's most important bottom line in marriage. Marriage.