Often the more beautiful the love, the more there is a kind of chasing fun that you chase me and escape, so that you can't even forget to return, and you are willing to indulge in it.
A smart woman will use some ingenious strategies in her relationship to keep a man "unobtainable", so that he can always worry about himself and keep love fresh.
Men have a hunting instinct in their nature, and what is too easy to obtain is often taken for granted.
If you give him a little hope, and retract a little love, and make him feel that you are not so easily conquered, he will develop a stronger interest in you.
This feeling of suspense will make him miss you all the time and constantly think about how to win your heart.
In watching "Love's Study Trip", He Youjun talked about his pursuit of his wife Xi Mengyao, which was very interesting.
Xi Mengyao, whom he met through his sister, liked it very much from the beginning, and has been showing favor in various ways, but Xi Mengyao has always been polite, not too close, and not too distant.
He went to Shanghai on a business trip and specially invited Xi Mengyao to dinner, but every time he made an appointment for dinner, he was politely refused, and later he only reluctantly had lunch with Xi Mengyao.
In this regard, Xi Mengyao's explanation is:
At that time, if I agreed to make an appointment for dinner, I was worried that the other party would misunderstand. ”
The calmer Xi Mengyao is, the more positive and enthusiastic He Youjun is.
When he heard that Xi Mengyao would participate in a love variety show, he immediately put down the brain competition show he participated in, decisively became Xi Mengyao's date, and confirmed in advance that Xi Mengyao could not quit the show at will.
He Youjun went through these constant tosses before and after officially being with Xi Mengyao.
A smart woman, who treats a man who has a slight affection, will not show it immediately, but will have an observation process of "review and negotiation".
In this process, you can see whether a person is false or sincere to you.
Everyone has endless possibilities, and none of them should be defined by what a certain stage looks like.
A wise woman, when she is with a man, will show different novelties at different stages.
A man's curiosity about you is the magic weapon that attracts you.
It can make him constantly develop new curiosity about you, so as to maintain his interest in you, and then chase you tirelessly.
I once saw such a question on the Internet:
Should there be secrets between husband and wife? ”
One answer is this:
"Big things can be exposed, small things should have mutual blankness, just like a painting, with blank space, it looks more elegant. ”A man's constant curiosity about a woman is like reading an interesting book, he can't see the end and naturally keeps the book in his heart.
A smart woman, in front of a man, will never let the other party see her "true face of Lushan", but shows the looming beauty of "holding the pipa and half covering her face".
Let men not get it, this is the strategy of getting along in the relationship between the sexes, but behind the implementation of the strategy, it relies on the strength of women's self-confidence and independence.
A smart woman should have her own career, interests, and always be elegant and confident, so that she can use these strategies to attract the attention of the right people.
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