My brother is 31 years old, and he finally found a partner, but the woman asked for a house and a car as a bride price of 180,008, and my mother asked me and my sister to prepare 100,000 yuan for my brother each in order to prevent this marriage from being yellow, and said that if I can't get it, I won't go back to my parents' house.
My brother didn't graduate from junior high school and said that he couldn't go to school anymore, but he was not yet 18 years old, so his parents said that they found him a technical school and told him that he would play until he was 18 years old before he could leave school. During this period, when a relative returned from serving in the army, his parents tentatively told his younger brother that he would also go to the army for two years of training, but as soon as he heard that the training in the army was hard, he said that he was unwilling to go at all.
Finally, I mixed in the technical school for two more years, and before I graduated, I followed my relatives to work in Jiangsu. But he couldn't endure hardship, he went to the factory either because he worked long hours or because he felt that the work was too heavy, and he said that he couldn't learn a little technical work, and the workshop director always quarreled with him. In less than a year in Jiangsu, the factory changed countless times, grinding the relatives who took him to lose their temper, and resolutely did not take him with him the next year.
His parents found him a job as a cook in a restaurant in his hometown, thinking that he could at least learn a trade and become self-reliant in the future. However, it was still too naïve, and the kitchen worked for 3 years and 3 years, and when I came back, I couldn't even cut the dishes.
Seeing that he was over 25 years old, his parents asked relatives and friends to introduce him to several girls, and people either thought he didn't have a serious job, or they thought he was too honest and couldn't coax people, and the object always said it was not good.
My brother is in his 30s, but my parents are worried. Half a year ago, my cousin told my parents that she had a girl from my godsister's family who had not yet married, and wanted to match my brother, and arranged for the two to meet. The girl is very good, although she doesn't talk much, but she didn't find fault with my brother, and both parents were satisfied after meeting, but when discussing the follow-up marriage, the woman's parents proposed to have a house and a car, and their local standard bride price was not less than 180,008.
My parents couldn't get that much money at once because they were farming, so they called me and my sister home to discussMy mother said that as an older sister, she should help her younger brother, so that we could prepare 100,000 yuan each, and said that it would be up to my brother and my sister to see if he had a daughter-in-law in the future, and if he messed up my brother's marriage, he would not have to go back to his parents' house in the future.
My husband and I have been married for 7 years, although we can have a combined annual salary for the two of us.
Ten. 60,000 or 70,000 yuan, but the family has nearly 80,000 yuan of mortgage to repay every year, and there is a 5-year-old son and in-laws to support, so I can't take out so much money, and my sister's family has 2 children, and the burden is heavier than mine.
Later, my sister and I summed it up, and each of them contributed 50,000 yuan, no matter how much it was, after all, we both had to live.
A few days later, I transferred 50,000 yuan to my mother through my mobile phone, and after the transfer, I called ** to confirm whether my mother received it. My mother began to count me down, saying that she raised me so much that her own brothers didn't help, and that whoever in the village got married, and my sister not only bought a house, but also gave 200,000 gifts, saying that she and my father worked hard for me to finish college, but they couldn't help me at all when I needed it.
My mother hung up the ** after the count, and I won't answer the ** again in the next few days, but I also feel very aggrieved, should my sister really help her brother selflessly?