The iron laws of society that you need to know in a mixed society
1.Do not step on your shoes in front of the widow's door, and do not look forward under the apricot tree, so as not to be unjustified.
2.Incompetent men should not marry the medical staff, and it is difficult to stay together if they lack strength.
3.If a man chooses a kindergarten teacher as a companion, he often arouses suspicion that it is not sincere.
4.Although the extramarital affair is charming, it is difficult to last for more than three years.
5.When a man chooses a mate, appearance is not the first priority, but cleanliness is the priority.
6.Dogs that are silent are often the most vicious, and some honest people are the same.
7.Being easy-going does not mean giving up your dignity, and those who don't cause trouble don't mean they're afraid of things happening, they're really afraid of things.
8.For the ridicule and scolding of others, I decide for myself whether it is good or bad.
9.If a goal is set, act decisively in the face of challenges; Always believe that my life is up to me!
10.In "The Art of War", it is said that interests are the foundation of all interactions, and when they cannot bring benefits to the other party, human nature is evil.
11.The highest level of control is to make the other party feel it, and think that he is in control of everything, similar to Sun Wukong in the palm of the Buddha.
12.Know how to show weakness and make people feel safe with you.
13.Whose thoughts you care about, you will be controlled by whom, and you will lose yourself after a long time.
14.No one can hurt you unless you want to.
15.Be perfunctory to the villain, not break up the friendship.
16.Before the time comes, you can endure the humiliation of your crotch, and when the time is ripe, you can use it for your own use.
17.Don't eat the bitterness of **, eat the bitterness of health.
Practice healthy eating habits.
It's harder than dieting :
And sticking to a healthy way doesn't have to be at all.
18.Don't suffer hard, but eat the pain of thinking.
Thinking right. Hard work is a pleasure.
Blind mobilization of perseverance.
It's a restriction on thinking.
19.Don't take the initiative to endure hardship, but suffer in adversity.
Suffering itself is not worth singing about.
It makes sense to reflect positively in the midst of suffering, to endure hardship for the sake of suffering, and in the end you can only gain suffering.
20.Don't suffer from loneliness, eat the pain of loneliness.
Loneliness makes people panic.
Desperate to find a companion.
Loneliness is sobering.
Enjoy the moment.
21.Guests don't bring guests, others treat, you don't bring friends.
22.You can persuade the vegetables, but don't pick up the vegetables.
23.Stand on the left side of the other person in the toast and don't make the guest turn around and be embarrassed.
24.Respect the leaders and elders first, in a counterclockwise direction.
25.Do not pour wine with your backhand, it is pouring wine for the deceased.
26.Don't go to the banquet empty-handed, bring some gifts.
27.At dinner, if you don't want to drink, call the doctor so that no one will advise you again.
28.When others invite guests, you should not bring your friends with you, and it is a rule and a polite thing to take guests.
29.Always trust your colleagues, no matter how kind they are.
30.Don't offend, lead the celebrities around you.
31.Jobs introduced by acquaintances, don't go.
32.Making friends with colleagues at work is like picking up candy in the garbage heap to eat, and if you pick it up, it's no surprise that you pick up.
33.There is a kind of person: to his superiors, he is a dog; To his subordinates, he was a wolf; To his colleagues, he was a ghost. This kind of person is called high emotional intelligence.
34.What makes you most tired is often not the work itself, but the people you meet at work, with a salary, doing the work of two people, and listening to the calls of three fools.
35.The leader is always right, don't reason with the leader, especially if you are not capable.
36.Leading him is just a division of labor, and there is no need to grovel and do his own thing.
37.If you don't do a good job, you will bow your head and admit it, don't say bitter, the workplace looks at ability, if you don't do it well, you don't have enough ability, the more you explain, the more incapable.
38.For the requirements of the leadership, it is necessary to absolutely. Obey the right one, unless you have excellent ability, and you must lead.
39.During working hours, don't post to Moments, let alone pick up the leader's ** in seconds, otherwise it will make the leader feel that you are lazy and playing with your mobile phone.
40.When the leader draws you a big pie, just listen to it, don't take it seriously, let alone question or expose it.
41.The greater the ability, the more, and you must pretend to be stupid when you should pretend to be stupid.
42.If a person's level is quite high, but he is average, it is most likely because of his bad character.
43.Colleague relationships that can be talked to and reconnected are fragile in the face of conflicts of interest.
44.Go to work at the point, get off work at the time, don't be late, don't leave early, this is the most basic quality as a worker.
45.When you gain power, don't be too arrogant, and turn Hedong to Hexi in three years, so as not to fall into the trap of others when you lose power.
46.Short-term relationships look at faces, long-term relationships look at character, lifelong interactions, and character.
47.No friends at work. Colleagues can never become friends, talk less and work more.
48.Don't expect anything from anyone, including parents, spouses, brothers, sisters, children. Don't be too optimistic about the firmness, durability, and intimacy of the relationship, and the best relationship state is when people go to tea and cool.
49.Angry because you are not generous enough; Jealousy is because you are not good enough; Sadness is because you are not strong enough; Depressed because you are not open-minded enough; Anxiety is because you are not calm enough...
Remember: all negative emotions come from your weakness, and only by being strong can you be invulnerable.
50.Whatever you want to control, in fact, controls you, and when you don't want anything, heaven and earth are yours. The road is simple, no desire is rigid, and no action is everything.
51.When I turned on my phone, it was full of chicken soup for the soul; Put down the phone, it's all firewood, rice, oil and salt. Don't envy anyone's life, in fact, there is ash at the bottom of anyone's pot, it's not that others have infinite scenery, but that their chicken feathers are not shown to others.
When you're yearning for someone else's life. Maybe others are envying your happiness too! In this life, you must not only pursue what you don't have now, but also know how to enjoy what you have now.