Recently, a minimalist wedding in Lishui has attracted the attention of many netizens, not looking for a wedding, the groom to host, and a friend to take pictures, the total cost is less than 50,000 yuan, but it is full of rituals. Netizens said: "It's real and rational, this is the real life of your own life", "The new fashion of newlyweds and newlyweds is worth advocating." ”
On February 3, a Chao News reporter contacted the bride of the wedding, Ms. Liu (pseudonym). In fact, behind this minimalist wedding that has attracted much attention, there is also a romantic love long-distance running story.
3 years in different places. Love spanning 2068 kilometers.
Ms. Liu and her husband Mr. Wang (pseudonym) started their long-distance love run 12 years ago.
At that time, Ms. Liu, who was about to graduate from university, was looking for an internship unit, because she was studying hotel management and yearning for the beautiful scenery of Hainan, so she chose to go to a Hainan hotel to exercise herself. Coincidentally, Mr. Wang is the manager of this hotel.
The two came into contact in this way, and they were very serious and reliable at work, which left a good impression on each other. After the internship ended, Ms. Liu returned to work in Hangzhou, but the two sides still keep in touch through the Internet.
He chased me in 2015, chased for two years, and then got together. Ms. Liu said that because she felt that Mr. Wang was down-to-earth and reliable, she accepted the other party as her boyfriend, but because of the separation between the two places, the two experienced a long-distance relationship for a long time.
It is said that long-distance relationships do not last long, but Ms. Liu and Mr. Wang proved with their actions that as long as they love each other, distance is not a problem.
For us, long-distance relationships don't seem to be a problem. It may be because the two of them are usually busy at work, and they often have to work overtime, basically just a ** at night. Because it is rare to get in touch, everyone cherishes it. Ms. Liu said that about every quarter, Mr. Wang would cross 2,068 kilometers and fly from Hainan to Hangzhou to see her, and he insisted on it for three years.
July 26, 2019, was a day that the two of them would never forget. Mr. Wang made a bold decision, for the sake of Ms. Liu, he left Hainan, where he had worked hard for many years, and came to Hangzhou to develop.
I'm still very moved, I don't have the courage to go to another city to live alone. Ms. Liu said that this also strengthened her determination to be with Mr. Wang.
Soon, she took Mr. Wang back to his hometown Qingyuan to meet his parents, and the other party also took her back to Anhui for the New Year.
Minimalist weddings. It costs less than 50,000 yuan, but it is full of rituals.
At this point in the story, marriage is logical.
Perhaps because this relationship is not easy to come by, the two pay more attention to each other's feelings and do not care too much about the form of the wedding. In order not to toss, they chose the simplest way with very little overhead.
The dinner was about 25,000, and at noon some of our relatives arrived in advance and ate a few tables in the small restaurant next to our house, about three or four thousand. The photographer is my friend, so it didn't cost money, the camera was introduced by this friend, and I gave a relatively low **, about three or four thousand. The makeup is done in the store, **cheaper, only five or six hundred yuan, and some KT boards arranged on the spot, all bought online, only a few hundred yuan. Ms. Liu said that with some other odds and ends such as candy and ID photos, it only cost less than 50,000 yuan in total.
Although frugal, there is a lot of ritual that should be there
The two carefully created a **, looking back on their long-distance love run; The marriage certificate was obtained at the Shangcheng District Civil Affairs Bureau in Taohuahu Park, known as "the most beautiful civil affairs bureau in Hangzhou", and the two parties swore to each other; The wedding photos were taken in the ancient village of Qingyuan, and the red Xiuhe clothes with the loess wall made ** very textured ......
Ms. Liu said that in fact, many young people are choosing simple weddings now, "I think it is okay to be rich and thrifty, any way, as long as the newlyweds are happy and satisfied, and they have no regrets." ”
Compared to other weddings where the bride and groom leave early and return late and are exhausted, the purpose of this wedding is to refuse tossing and trouble, and to express love in a quieter and more peaceful way. Perhaps, this is what love should look like.
*: Chao News reporter Huang Yuhuan.