July 28, 2018 was an extremely festive day for the Gao family in Qiaoshang Village, Zhongyang County, Shanxi Province, as their youngest son Gao Haozhen finally ushered in his wedding.
On this joyous day, the most eye-catching is not the bride and groom, but the 11 women in red T-shirts. They greeted each other calmly in front of the camera, calling themselves the 11 sisters of the groom Gao Haozhen.
This ** instantly caused an uproar on the Internet, and netizens shouted: I want a son even after giving birth to 11 girls, what kind of family does this have to be?What's even more shocking is that the money used for the younger brother's marriage was also made up by these 11 sisters, as high as 320,000!
For a while, the Internet was full of comments such as "patriarchy" and "Voldemort", so is the truth really as netizens said?What is the current situation of the Gao family?
In 2018, a young man came to Ninth Sister's barber shop with a sad face. After questioning, the ninth sister learns of his predicament: his girlfriend is pregnant, but he has not earned enough money to get married.
Hearing the news, the ninth sister did not get angry, but decided to help him. She immediately contacted the other 10 sisters and decided to raise money together for her brother's marriage. At home, they discussed how to raise money for their brother and promised the family that they would help him through the difficult time.
In the end, through the joint efforts of everyone, the younger brother successfully got married, and the ninth sister and her sisters also fulfilled their promise. This story teaches us that the strength of the family is infinite, and as long as there is love and unity, it is possible to overcome any difficulty.
After the ninth sister locked the door of the store, hung up the closure sign, and took Gao Haozhen back to her home in Qiaoshang Village, the old father who was originally doing farm work was also called back to the house. In the afternoon, a family of 14 people got together, and only Gao Haozhen was a little nervous.
He looked even more silent as he watched the room full of people discussing his own affairs. In the end, it was the eldest sister who spoke first: "Don't you want to get married?"Why do you still have such a sad face?”
The ninth sister rushed before Gao Haozhen and said: "Everyone knows the situation of our family, and the younger brother will definitely not be able to come up with the money to get married, let alone the bride price, and it is estimated that he can't even afford the banquet." ”
Gao Haozhen and his girlfriend have a five-year relationship foundation, not to mention that the woman is still pregnant, so she can't let the other party be wronged.
Although the Gao family has a total of 12 children, the family can barely get by, but they do not have much savings. Coupled with the fact that Gao Haozhen worked in the barbershop of the ninth sister after graduating from high school, the ninth sister knew his financial situation well.
Seeing the embarrassed faces of her parents and younger brother, the second sister said directly: "Don't worry about this, we have already discussed, everyone will make a little money out, it will definitely be enough for you to get married!" ”
Immediately afterwards, the tenth sister also echoed: "Yes, although we don't have a lot of money, we have decided your wedding!" Just wait to get married! Hearing these words, Gao Haozhen couldn't help but express her gratitude to her sisters.
Since he was a child, he has always been cared for by his sisters, but he didn't expect his sisters to support him so much when facing major life events. In the end, the eldest sister of the Gao family took several younger sisters and accompanied her parents and younger brother Gao Haozhen to the woman's house to propose marriage.
When the woman's family learned of their daughter's pregnancy, they felt the importance of getting married, so they quickly agreed on a wedding date. In terms of wedding expenses, the 11 sisters of the Gao family contributed separately, ranging from 120,000 to 100,000 yuan.
Although the economic conditions of the sisters are different, Gao Haozhen has given equal respect and gratitude. In addition to the money, these 11 sisters also undertook various affairs of Gao Haozhen's wedding.
As a professional in the wedding industry, the second sister is responsible for planning the wedding vehicles and clothing, while the father and eldest sister are responsible for contacting the people in the village who organize the banquet, and other trivial matters are also solved by the sisters.
As the groom, Gao Haozhen only needs to take care of his fiancée, and he basically doesn't have to worry about family affairs.
On the day of Gao Haozhen's wedding, according to local custom, he followed the convoy to the bride's house to greet relatives, while his parents and sisters received relatives and friends at home. When Ko returned home, his 11 sisters, dressed in red T-shirts and holding colorful fans, lined up in front of the camera to introduce themselves, and finally the camera focused on their smiles and the happy picture of Ko Haozhen and his wife.
On this day, the appearance of 11 sisters became the biggest highlight of the wedding, and their brotherhood was deeply appreciated. The wedding host said excitedly: "11 sisters got together 320,000 yuan for their younger brother to get married, such a brotherhood is really touching!" ”
Gao Haozhen also said in public that he would work hard, be filial to his parents, protect the family, and repay his sisters. The wedding of the couple came to an end in laughter, however, when the ** of the wedding was uploaded to the Internet, especially the part where the sisters lined up to introduce themselves, it caused heated discussions among netizens.
Title: Expose "patriarchal" rumors! Shanxi family of 14 tells about difficult years An ordinary wedding caused an uproar on the Internet, and many commentators and even netizens directly questioned the Gao family's economic conditions and fertility concepts, saying, "With so many children, is there a mine in the family?" ”
This rumor affected the originally peaceful life of the Gao family, and in order to clarify the facts, Gao Yu, the tenth sister of the Gao family, accepted an interview with reporters. Under Gao Yu's recollection, the reporter walked into the difficult years of this family of 14.
Gao Haigui is an ordinary farmer in Shangqiao Village, Shanxi, with little education, and his family's life has always been relatively poor. Although living in the sixties and seventies, Gao Haigui did not care too much about material conditions, he believed that as long as there is love, he can withstand all difficulties.
At the age of 22, Gao Haigui married his wife and began their family life. Gao Yu said: "Everyone doesn't know what life we used to live in. She hopes that through this interview, more people can understand their lives and understand their choices.
She said that every child in the Gao family is the crystallization of their husband's and wife's love, and they will not give up their love and education just because they have more children. The story of this family of 14 shows us the power of love and gives us a deeper understanding of their lives.
They have proved with their practical actions that the happiness of the family is not based on material conditions, but on mutual care and support. Let's bless this loving family together and hope they can be happy forever!
The love story of Mr. and Mrs. Gao Haigui is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and their married life is full of love and harmony. They believe that every child, male or female, is a gift from God, and as such, they always maintain their love and respect for each child.
The Gao family's family concept is highly praised in the local area, and they insist on having children because they want to give their children a complete family. They believe that every child, regardless of gender, deserves to be loved and cared for.
However, life is not always smooth sailing. After giving birth to 10 daughters, the Gao family finally welcomed their son. In order to allow their son to grow up healthily, Gao Haigui and his wife even asked someone to tell their son's fortune and name him.
Although the pressure of life increased suddenly, they never gave up. The life of the Gao family was full of challenges and difficulties, but they always walked on with determination. Their stories show us that no matter how great the difficulties we face, if we have love in our hearts, we can overcome them.
The story of Mr. and Mrs. Gao Haigui is touching, and we are deeply impressed by their tenacity and love. Their family concepts and attitudes towards life are worth learning and learning from each of us.
Gao Haozhen was born in a financially difficult family, and most of her sisters did not receive a good education due to family conditions. However, with his own efforts, Gao Yu studied all the way to high school graduation, scored well in the college entrance examination, and was even admitted to a university in Beijing.
However, considering the family's financial situation, she resolutely decided to give up the opportunity to go to university and return to her hometown to work to help the family. Despite the difficult family conditions, Gao Yu and her 11 sisters did not give up, and they took turns wearing the few sets of clothes they had, until they were able to work and earn money, and they were willing to buy new clothes for themselves to wear.
Picture source network, despite this, they care for their younger brother Gao Haozhen. When Gao Haozhen was born, the eldest sister in the family had already started a family, but she always treated her younger brother more than her own children, and several other sisters were not far behind, buying some delicious food to take home from time to time.
Every Chinese New Year, none of the sisters bought new clothes for themselves, but Gao Haozhen can always wear the new clothes bought by her sisters in the Chinese New Year's Eve. As Gao Haozhen grew up and had free compulsory education, he got a high-quality education that his sisters did not have.
But unfortunately, he has no interest in studying, and after graduating from high school, he fell in love with his wife. In order to give her younger brother a stable job, the ninth sister still left him in her barber shop, although she didn't make a lot of money, but she also hoped to learn a trade and support her family in the future.
Gao Haozhen worked in the barbershop of the ninth sister for five years, during which he worked hard and studied hard until the year he got married. The family has always supported each other to move forward, and during this time, the sisters have given a lot to the family and the younger brother.
When Gao Haozhen got married, netizens questioned the 11 sisters of the Gao family, mainly focusing on the bride price of 320,000 yuan. Some people question the high bride price for marriage in rural areas, and some people question the problem of sisters helping their younger brothers free of charge.
In the face of these doubts, Gao Yu explained: "These 320,000 yuan are what our sisters are willing to give to their younger brothers, and there is no so-called 'family kidnapping'. That's how we've always been. ”
She also added: "The use of the 320,000 yuan is not like the bride price for the woman as said on the Internet, only 90,000 yuan is the bride price and wedding money, and the remaining 230,000 yuan is in the county seat to buy a 100-square-meter house for my younger brother." ”
Despite the doubts, the Gao family still feels happy and satisfied.
When talking about the issue of "patriarchy" in Gao Yu's family, Gao Yu said bluntly: "Our family does not have this kind of thinking, and parents want a son is also influenced by traditional concepts.
But whether it was for me or for our sisters, they were fair and caring. Even the love for my brother is what our sisters really want him to be happy. ”
Through Gao Yu's narration, the reporter reacquainted himself with the family, and the online comments also changed, and more people expressed their blessings to them. Some netizens who know the truth sighed: "They have done a good job, the parents did not abandon their daughters because they wanted a son, and the relationship between the family has always been harmonious, which is very rare."
I hope they will continue to be happy in the future. "Now, Gao Haozhen has been married for five years, what about their lives? In 2019, they had a lovely child, and the whole family blessed him in their own way.
Gao Haozhen, the second sister and the mother's majority of netizens expressed their blessings after learning about it, and one of the netizens humorously said: "So there is no need to have 11 more." However, two years later, the Gao family's mother left them forever before the age of 70 due to long-term physical weakness.
The death of his mother brought a heavy blow to Gao Haigui, and he became depressed because he lost his wife who had been with him for nearly 50 years. After the death of his mother, the children of the Gao family often went home to visit their father, and Gao Haozhen even took his wife and son home from time to time to live.
The other sisters of the Gao family generally keep a low profile, and most of them work in towns not far from their homes, working in various industries. Among them, the second sister's social ** is the most active, she often shares her life, and through social **, her wedding career is becoming more and more prosperous.
In the short **, the second sister of the Gao family has always had a ruddy complexion, and it is almost impossible to tell that she is close to fifty years old. In 2022, the second sister of Gao will become a quasi-mother-in-law through the social ** "official announcement", her eldest son is engaged, and the Gao family is present to congratulate.
In the camera, the second sister smiled from ear to ear, bursting with happiness. The tenth sister Gao Yu also has her own family, so far, the children of the Gao family have all started a family, which has also made her father Gao Haigui worry a lot.
Gao Haozhen is also practicing his wedding vows, and he has been working hard for more than four years, and has even begun to return the money his sisters gave him when they got married. It's just that the sisters naturally won't really accept the money, and in the end they all returned to Gao Haozhen's son in various ways.
The children of the Gao family also often hold family gatherings together, and each has their own happy life. These little happiness came together and quietly formed everyone's happiness.