Keep the rhythm, move lightly, and have no desires
Adlerian psychology believes that when two people are together, they feel free and unrestrained with each other, which is love. This feeling does not make you feel inferior and does not require you to show your superiority, but rather allows you to remain natural, peaceful, and stable.
True love is selfless and allows you to give to the other person without expecting anything in return. I used to be too naïve and wholeheartedly pursued, thinking that as long as I gave my all, the other party would be good to me.
But that's not the case, my all-out efforts make the other person feel bored and bored, and eventually disliked and abandoned. Friendship, love, and even family affection all need to be understood and respected by each other, and cannot be unilaterally given and expected.
I used to be too simple and believed in the goodness of human nature, but the reality made me see the sinister nature of the human heart. Still, I am willing to cherish and love the rest of my life to make my life more meaningful.
I know that every midnight dream comes back to my heartache, but I've learned how to protect myself from anyone hurting me easily. I still have a bright light, but I've also learned how to protect my heart from anyone who walks in.
I hope that the rest of my life will be soft and resilient enough to withstand unknown risks and challenges.
Difficulties in life often stem from the wrong people and circumstances. Even if you are talented and kind, you will not be able to escape from a hellish situation. Only when you refuse to be polished by reality, stick to your original intention, and learn to love yourself, can you repair your body and mind and embrace warmth.
Instead of holding a grudge against those who have caused you harm, turn it into a motivation for self-healing. Stick to virtue and cause and effect, stay away from villains and wicked people, and don't let negative emotions affect your life.
Choose to believe in yourself, embrace the good, stay away from the negative, and let life be full of brightness and warmth. Go to the higher hills to find more beautiful scenery and make the inner world more vast and bright.
Such a choice will bring you unexpected surprises and good luck, and make your future full of color. ”
Life is like a cup of tea, although there will be bitter moments, but it will not last, and bitterness will always come. Don't easily confide your pain to others, and deal with the sourness of emotions yourself, otherwise you will only expose your vulnerability.
In this world, no one can truly understand your experience, and everyone has their own path to follow. When you begin to understand that you are the only one in this world who is experiencing their joys and sorrows, and you can't find the person who understands you in the difficult days, and you are alone in the process of loneliness, then you can only take care of yourself in the long loneliness.
That's why you later became so ruthless and cold. You no longer trust other people, not because they are bad, but because your heart only wants to show warmth and trust in yourself, and you don't want to experience betrayal and slander again.
While the ** in the distance may look dazzling, to you they are just ordinary stones and broken tiles. You don't want to be moved by things that don't belong to you anymore, and gradually, you start to get used to the bitter taste, your heart is still beating strongly, and you will still be moved and moved when you see familiar scenery and pictures.
Now you belong only to yourself and will no longer sacrifice your energy for anyone. In this world, you have lost the enthusiasm of the past, and only a little light is left to warm you.
If you are not careful to take care of yourself, you are afraid that one day you will disappear. Let the only remaining vitality and hope belong to you, let your life slowly recover and recuperate, and one day you will become better.
Without resentment, there will be no distortion, your heart is already full of holes, and your inner world has been tortured to the point of being out of shape. But you will work on your dreams, little by little wrapping them in the shape of flowers and decorating them on your path.
They will be your standard and medals on your way to higher and farther places.