Girlfriend brings up the bride priceWan, her boyfriend responded domineeringly.
Li Jiawen and Xu Zhiyuan originally thought that they could smoothly enter the palace of marriage, but the conflict caused by the demolition money made their relationship face a serious test. Li Jiawen is a smart and independent girl with a stable job and a considerable income, while Xu Zhiyuan is a pragmatic and steady young man, although his family background is ordinary, but his attitude towards life is down-to-earth.
The two fell in love in college and decided to get married after a run-in. After negotiation between the two families, the man decided to pay 200,000 bride price and buy three gold, and the woman was responsible for the wedding expenses.
Although Li Jiawen deeply loves and trusts Xu Zhiyuan, it is still unknown whether they can successfully pass this test.
One day, Li Jiawen overheard her colleagues talking about demolition, and her heart was full of curiosity, so she began to investigate. She learned that Xu Zhiyuan's house was located within the scope of the demolition, and their family received 5 million yuan in compensation for the demolition.
This news shocked and confused Li Jiawen, and she began to reflect, could it be that Xu Zhiyuan's family is rich, and he has been hiding himself? She felt angry and disappointed, feeling that in this relationship, Xu Zhiyuan had something to hide, and even felt that she had been deceived.
At the moment of emotion, Li Jiawen decided to talk to Xu Zhiyuan clearly, she found Xu Zhiyuan with inner entanglement, and asked bluntly: "Your family has divided 5 million yuan for demolition, why didn't you tell me?" ”
Xu Zhiyuan's face changed slightly, he understood that his silence had brought trouble and uneasiness to Li Jiawen, and he tried to explain: "Jiawen, this is not my own business, it is my parents' house, and the compensation has only arrived recently, and I haven't had time to tell you yet." ”
However, Li Jiawen was already emotional and couldn't listen to any explanation, she firmly believed that Xu Zhiyuan had something to hide and no longer believed him. It should have been a happy thing, but Xu Zhiyuan didn't expect that the 5 million yuan would become the fuse for the two of them to break up.
After discussing with his family, Li Jiawen proposed to increase the bride price from 200,000 to 2 million. Xu Zhiyuan objected to this, arguing that this is not the solution to the problem, and that a solution should be found through understanding and cooperation.
After lengthy negotiations, neither side was willing to compromise. Li Jiawen's family believes that the bride price of 200,000 yuan was proposed based on their original family conditions, and now that their family has received 5 million, they should show enough sincerity.
Xu Zhiyuan's family believes that a lot of bride price has been given, and this issue should not become a bottleneck in the relationship between the two. In the quarrel and conflict, Li Jiawen and Xu Zhiyuan were also affected, and the two fell into an unprecedented dispute.
Xu Zhiyuan said to Li Jiawen sincerely: "Didn't we already say 200,000? Why do you want to add it to 2 million now? Li Jiawen replied: "It is not easy for my parents to raise me, and this 2 million yuan should be regarded as a reward for honoring them for raising me, and it is also their pension money." ”
Xu Zhiyuan said that it is not easy to understand Li Jiawen's parents, but 2 million is indeed too much. Li Jiawen said that if Xu Zhiyuan is unwilling to give the 2 million, it means that he does not have enough sincerity and love.
The bride price is a symbol of love, but it is often mistaken for a measure of love. However, love is not something that can be measured by money, and those couples who are separated because of the bride price are often not loving enough and not sincere enough.
If you have a calculating mentality from the beginning, even if you enter into marriage, it will be difficult to last long. Therefore, those couples who break up because of the bride price, perhaps separating early, is a relief for each other.