The relationship between the main brother and sister is estranged because the person who pays is no longer willing to give, and the group of people who want to take advantage can no longer take advantage.
What do you think is the reason for the further distance between siblings?
In modern society, people often find that siblings have less and less contact with each other, or even become strangers. What is the reason behind this situation? There is an opinion that this is because the person who pays directly never wants to give anymore, and the group of people who want to take advantage can no longer take advantage. Is there any truth to this view?
In the past, I was in business, and although it was not large, it was much better than the average person. For more than ten years, I have been helping my brothers and sisters, both in good and bad ways. Every year, on a traditional holiday, I give each brother and sister a gift, usually tobacco, alcohol, meat and seafood. During the Chinese New Year, I will also give my children a big red envelope. I've never stopped doing this. No matter who has something to do, I will not hesitate to contribute money and help. How much money is lent out? I don't remember exactly, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, I never think about anything in return.
These things make my wife and I often quarrel. Many times, my wife clamored for a divorce from me. I used to be a complete Voldemort, and in order to help my siblings, I gave up money that should have been given to my wife and family. Looking back now, I really regret it and hate myself for why I did it.
Recent events have completely changed my perception. In the past year, business in all walks of life has not been doing well, and I have lost a lot of money. I invested in another project and was scammed. In this emergency situation, I had another serious illness and my life was hanging by the line. After more than ten days of rescue, I was able to save my life.
During this time, I was very sad by what my brothers and sisters were doing. After knowing that my business was losing money, my investment was failing, I was sick and I had no money, they all pretended to be poor. The boss said that he hadn't paid his salary for eight months, he always said that he had lost all the money, and he always said that he had borrowed a lot of debts outside and couldn't get by. I wondered that I had never borrowed money from them, and I never expected them to help me. Why did they give me a vaccination?
The ugliness of human nature is vividly exposed when you get sick when you have no money. Well, well, I've helped the white-eyed wolf over the years. I became the protagonist of the story of Mr. Dongguo and the wolf through and through. The ancients said that "Shengmi enmity fights rice hatred", and I have exchanged years of dedication for such a result. I finally recognized the ethereal nature of blood relations. Since then, I have only done my own thing, and today I have withdrawn from the family group and do not want to associate with anyone anymore. My efforts over the years are like feeding a dog is meaningless.
There is a saying that "virtue carries things". I believe in the truth that people are doing what the sky is watching. Although I lost something, I believe that I will be rewarded in another way.