Since Mencius proposed:The trouble of people is to be a good teacherFor many years, to this day, everyone still doesn't like this kind of person.
But people who cultivate the mind, when they encounter something, talk about oneThere is no goodness and no disgusting body。When you learn to look twice, you see something else.
Good teacher,ExternallyNot necessarily good, no one wants to see your condescending posture; But ifInternally、To yourself maybe againA mental method
I have used this method for many years, and I should say that it is very useful.
It can help you open a door, it can help you clear a situation, and it allows youStand at a higher angleto look at the problem you're currently experiencing.
You see why some people learn things quickly, while some people can't do it and feel that they have poor understanding.
Actually, it's because your perspective has been hindering you, and you've given yourself onePresumptivetags.
For example, when you define yourself as a child when you are a child, you will think that your parents will take care of everything you do wrong anyway, so you are not very responsible for doing things.
Then, this habit will hinder your growth in the long run.
But this hypothetical label is not solid, because causes and conditions change rapidly. You can't rely on being in this comfort zone all your life, you won't always be a child, you won't always be a student, you won't always be a company employee, a self-employed owner, a CEO of a listed company, ......Wait a minute.
KarmaAlways outsideVariations, you should be aware of the hypothetical labelLimitations
So since hypothetical labels are holding you back, how do you solve this dilemma?
Being a good teacher is the way to break the preconceived labels. In other words, it is to break down the barriers of the ego.
When you encounter one thing, you are used to thinking in terms of your current situation, and that isCaught in a hypothetical label
For example, a carpenter will be helpless because he can't find a hammer, but a child will use a brick to help him solve the problem.
The reason why the carpenter is helpless is that he can't get out of the hypothetical label of "professional carpenter", thinking that only a hammer can hit nails, and children don't have such a frame of mind.
To be a good teacher is to give yourself oneThink outside of yourselfperspective.
In fact, it is not profound, it is to ask yourself a sentence when you encounter a problem:What can I do if I want to help me?
This is different from what I said before, borrowing other people's perspectives, that is, asking yourself what would I do if I were so-and-so?
This so-and-so, must be what you thinkA master in a certain field
But today's good teacher is not to let so-and-so be your guide, butBe your own immortal, and give yourself a pair of golden hands
You may be very puzzled, I can't solve the trouble myself, don't I bring up this problem or make trouble for myself?
Not so, you will find that a person when heBe consciousTo goBe your own teacher, he will not hold back, but will make bold moves.
The reason why people often get into all kinds of troubles is because in the process of solving problemsVisionConstantlyNarrowing.
In other words, it's the ego that is constantly expanding. Because the ego needs self-protection and needs to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, it will gradually become selfish, unobjective, and bottomless.
But when you step out of the trap of the villain and look at your situation in a state of presence: I am in circles with me, like a higher self overseeing the present self, then everything is completely different and the fountain of wisdom gushes out.
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