Celebrities are also worried about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and Jinsha, who is not married, asked the host Zhu Dan, "Can you treat your mother-in-law as your own mother?" ”
In the end, Zhu Dan replied: "You don't take this matter seriously, it's a bit deliberate, your biological parents are your biological parents, and your mother-in-law is your mother-in-law." ”
This is said objectively. That's the case, my mother-in-law is not my own mother in the first place, so why should I be my own mother?
A mother-in-law is a mother-in-law, not a mother. How many daughters-in-law treat their mother-in-law with sincerity, expecting their mother-in-law to treat themselves as daughters. As a result, "dang" and "is" mean differently.
When I first got married, I naively regarded my mother-in-law as my own mother, and sometimes I lost my temper. As a result, my mother-in-law really showed me her face and didn't talk to me for several days.
And the sister-in-law came once in a while and quarreled with her, but the mother-in-law didn't care at all, just talk about it.
At that time, I sighed that my daughter-in-law and daughter are different, and my mother-in-law is different from my mother. Can you reconcile with your own mother after a quarrel with your own mother, can you do it with your mother-in-law?
In the future, I will be polite to my mother-in-law, and I no longer expect her to treat me as a daughter.
Not to mention, when the mother-in-law is treated as a guest and there is no expectation of the mother-in-law, the relationship is better than before. This also makes me even more determined that my daughter-in-law and mother-in-law must maintain a sense of boundaries and pay attention to proportion, so that they can get along for a long time.
For the question "Can I treat my mother-in-law as my own mother?" Someone said: "She treats me as her own daughter, and I treat her as my own mother!" She made me calculating with my heart, so don't blame me for being ruthless. ”
The mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law have nothing to do with each other, and they have an identity connection because of a man, but that's all.
If you want to have a good relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you don't want to be involved in everything as a mother-in-law, pay attention to proportions when you speak, and your daughter-in-law knows how to respect, it's okay.
As a mother-in-law, for the happiness of her son, you must remember three tips: either contribute money, or contribute effort, or shut up.
Don't, don't contribute money, don't make efforts, and love to mix things up.
Are you a daughter-in-law or a mother-in-law? Would you treat your mother-in-law like your own mother? Would you treat your daughter-in-law like a daughter?
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