1. Desire typeThis type of cheating man isSimply seeing lust, physical desires are not satisfied in marriage, so they want to eat more and occupy more outside of marriage.
In Feng Xiaogang's movie "A Sigh", the protagonist Liang Yaya is a screenwriter who immerses himself in writing, supports his family, and lives a happy and simple life with his wife.
Later, he was arranged to write in the resort hotel, and the arrival of his female assistant Li Xiaodan disrupted his unchanged life.
She is beautiful, young, energetic, and full of admiration for Liang Yaya.
One day, the drunk Li Xiaodan's clothes were stuck in the zipper and took the initiative to ask for helpLiang Yaya's Adam's apple rolled, his chest rose and fell violently, and he just suppressed his desire.
In the taxi, the zipper of Li Xiaodan's clothes was stuck againThe hands of the two were ambiguously next to each other, and he went to Li Xiaodan's residence that night.
Liang Yaya's derailment was completely dominated by desire, at least he didn't think about divorce at first.
Later, when the cheating was discovered, the original partner roared and asked, "When did you start?" Are you worthy of me for this? ”
Liang Yaya said: ".I sleep at night, touching your hand is like touching your left hand and my right hand doesn't feel it, but leaving you is like a broken hand that hurts, and neither of you can be replaced.
Some people say that a middle-aged couple kisses and has nightmares for several nights. This type of cheating man doesn't necessarily love Xiao San much, he just likes Xiao San's young and beautiful body.
2. PassionateThere is also a passionate type of cheatingThe man didn't have the idea of cheating at first, but he just happened to have such an opportunity, for example, when he met the mistress's initiative to show goodwill, he went on a business trip to another place, and he was drunk and shared a hotel ...... with the mistressHormones go up and down to choose cheating.
Qin Feng in the hit drama "If Running Is My Life" is a stark example.
A car accident made his wife's legs amputated with peace of mind, Qin Feng felt that there was a smell of rotten meat everywhere in the house, and he was nauseous and vomiting when he saw his wife's severed limbs, and he didn't want to live a married life with his wife at all.
On the one hand, out of a sense of responsibility and conscience, he told Anxin that he loved all the wounds on Anxin's body and everything about Anxin, and on the other hand, he hid Anxin under the pretext of work.
Chu Zhijuan saw that there was a problem with the relationship between Qin Feng and his wife, and kissed Qin Feng's face while shouting, "It's too lonely".
And Qin Feng was overwhelmed by his family, and in the face of this old and ugly woman who was five years older than him, he derailed passionately.
And then,Qin Feng became more and more knowledgeable, and began to fool around with Manager Chu.
Later, his mother saw him grabbing Chu Zhijuan's ass and flirting with him in the supermarket, and his mother roared in disbelief: "You are really hungry, no, you can eat anything." ”
Many passionate men who cheat on them are like this, they do something wrong in a moment of excitement, and then they are like opening Pandora's box, and gradually become addicted.
3. EmotionalThe emotionally cheating man may not have a physical relationship with the mistress, but you can clearly see that his emotions have shifted.
The biggest reason for his cheating is that the marriage has beenUnable to meet his emotional needs.
In the TV series "The World", the 19-year-old girl Zhou Rong fell in love with the down-and-out poet Feng Huacheng and married him in the mountains of Guizhou without hesitation.
Later, Zhou Rong was admitted to Peking University and studied for a master's degree and a doctorate all the way, while Feng Huacheng achieved nothing, and the gap between the two was like a crack on the blue and white porcelain gradually spreading.
Zhou Rong disliked him and became vulgar and dirty, and Feng Huacheng, who took care of all the housework, did not feel a sense of existence at home.
The marriage of strong women and weak men made him depressed, and his wife's accusations and complaints made him lose hope for marriage.
Feng Huacheng, who had been depressed for half his life, fell into the admiration of the young poet Wang Zi and betrayed his wife.
This type of infidelityIt's not necessarily that you don't love each other anymore, it's just that you lack the ability to solve marital problems.
4. Intergenerational
There is a kind of inertial cheating of a man who is influenced by his original family, such as his father's cheating, and his mother tolerating it, so that he feels that cheating is no big deal and there will be no punishment, so he loses his correct values.
is like Qi Chenggang in "Children of the Qiao Family", he cheated again and again, and then promised Simei again and again that he would change.
Later, Simei couldn't stand it anymore, and Qi Chenggang's mother comforted Qiao Simei and said: "It's good to be old and old, take care of it." ”
The reason why she said this was because Qi Chenggang's "lingering in the sea of flowers" character was actually with Qi Chenggang's father.
Qi Chenggang has watched his grandiose cheating father and his mother who has no bottom line to forgive since he was a child, and he subconsciously stoolAdmitting "wrong" as "right" has lost the moral bottom line.
And the connivance of the four beauties after marriage,As a result, Qi Chenggang, who originally had a very low loyalty, also reduced the cost of making mistakes a lot, and he was fearless and gradually became unscrupulous.
Different types of cheating situations, the solutions are also different, and wives should screen the situation and make targeted efforts to redeem it.