As the saying goes, "Soup without salt is better than water; People have no money, they are not as good as ghosts. ”
People who don't have money, how difficult life is, you can understand it once you encounter it. Not only will relatives and friends look down on you, but your parents may dislike you.
But you can't give up on life just because you don't have money. Ants are still greedy for life, let alone an upright person?
Don't be defeated by the current difficulties, don't close yourself, you just entered the trough period, if you can go to the following places to move around more, the financial road will be smooth, and there will always be harvest.
Go to a quiet place, read well, think, and improve your cultivation.
A wealthy man, looking back on his own process of getting rich, said: "The benefits of teaching in school for a few years are what is impetuous, what is not impetuous, and I know how to do it bit by bit." Entrepreneurship must not be impetuous. ”Through teaching, I enlightened others and gained wisdom from it. The teaching environment is simple, so it is far away from the hustle and bustle of the city, giving more peace of mind.
I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. The more impatient you are, the more you will find that you can't do anything, so it's better to calm down and do nothing and think about nothing for the time being.
During the Song Dynasty, there was a man named Lin Kui, who had a lot of knowledge, but he did not enter the official career, so he was depressed.
In order to change himself, he lived in seclusion next to the West Lake, with plum blossoms and cranes as his company, leaving an allusion to the plum wife and crane.
seems to be a very light life, but it actually contains a lot of truths, and the most important thing is that Lin Kui's behavior after living in seclusion is envied by many people, and it also brings wealth.
Song Zhenzong was a fan of Lin Kui, and he also sent someone to send money and food.
The emperor likes the people, the princes and ministers naturally like it, the prime minister Wang Sui, the Hangzhou county guard Xue Ying, and the money to build a house for him.
What's more, in the process of Lin Kui's seclusion, he wrote a lot of poems, which were collected and published by fans. We don't know what the costs or income are, but there are certainly any.
It is better to simply live in disorder, summarize life experience, learn more, and improve one's self-cultivation.
When you appear in the "rivers and lakes" again, you will already have a makeover, and life will easily rise. If you can still write some good articles when you are quiet, you will also have a celebrity effect and bring a lot of income.
Visit people who are able to help you, express your sincerity, and build a relationship.
Often, we recognize: "The weak are not social. ”
A person who has no money, it is not suitable to go to **, at the dinner, everyone is unwilling to sit next to you, for fear of being borrowed by you.
Some people take advantage of the trend, so they give up all social interaction and close themselves off. This is not right.
The "threshold effect" tells us that if you visit one person again and again, you can solve the big problem by asking for help with small problems.
Putting down your face and bowing your head to ask for help, although it is difficult, it will also be beneficial. After all, it's better for someone else to pull you than for years of struggle on your own.
Han Yu of the Tang Dynasty was only eight years old, but he was not appreciated for a long time.
In order to make a living, he wrote biographies of many big people, and the words revealed signs of "sloppy slapping horses".
The "Book of Prime Minister Mikami" and "Book of Subjects and Contemporary People" written by him did not quite match reality, but they were liked by the big people and thus received a bounty.
Later, Sima Guang commented on Han Yu: "Looking at his writing, knowing his aspirations, his learning from the rich, and his relatives from the poor and lowly." ”
Many readers, looking at the "backbone", would rather go hungry. But if you have a family, starving is not feasible and irrational.
Find a way to get married to rich people, grievances are temporary, and the future is promising.
Saying something insincere, looking at people's faces, and being ridiculed a few words is just a part of life. After you get help, follow the trend, fortune will come, and you can adjust your "position" and become a partner of the rich and noble.
Instead of hating the rich, it is better to build relationships and accept the test of "weak human feelings". After all, people who have the ability to help you are more socially valuable.
Go for help with your loved ones and believe that the power of family will give you the opportunity to rise.
Many people run away from home when they are poor, scolded by their family members and blamed by their parents, which is wrong.
Family is like this: scolding you while loving you; While disgusting you, help you.
Fan Jin in "The Outer History of Confucianism", in order to participate in the scientific expedition, asked for help from the old man who sold meat, hoping to subsidize the travel expenses.
The old man scolded as soon as he opened his mouth, hoping that Fan Jin would make a living and support his family. Of course, the old man did not lend money to Fan Jin.
Later, Fan Jinzhong raised it, and the old man took the initiative to carry the meat to celebrate, and also paid money to the "person who reported the good news".
Fan Jin moved and dealt with his mother's funeral, and his father-in-law also participated in the whole process and helped greet guests.
People have a prejudice: those harsh voices are remembered very clearly, and gentle voices are easy to forget.
If you think about the good of your family, you will know that when you don't have financial luck, you will still get help when you go for a walk in the big family. Wealthy brothers and sisters, you can't see death without help, but will find a way for you, introduce jobs, give travel expenses, these behaviors are still there.
The comfort or advice given to you by your parents is a manifestation of love. Maybe your parents don't have money, but being able to manage a few meals can also give you peace of mind.
All roads lead to Rome.
Your path today is very difficult, even blocked. Don't be discouraged, adjust your condition, start over, go where it might help you, and the opportunity will come as promised.
Don't set limits for yourself and think you're "that's it." Be a person who can stand the test and think long-term.
Of course, if you go anywhere, the premise is that your virtue should be good, and you don't be a villain who has been stinking for thousands of years. In society, good people are more willing to help people, and they are also good people.
The tree dies, the person moves", walk up, good luck is always ahead.