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Recently, there was an incident in Taiyuan, Shanxi Province, where "classmates did not return gifts". A woman invited her classmates to attend the wedding after getting married, but the classmates said that they were unable to attend because they were pregnant and did not take the initiative to return the gift. The woman thought that the gift was still exchanged, and took a screenshot of the transfer at that time, and insisted that the other party return the gift money of 500 yuan. Similar incidents are not uncommon, which has aroused widespread attention and discussion among netizens.
In recent years, similar situations have continued to occur, and it is not uncommon for classmates and friends to not return gifts when they get married. Many people believe that a gift is a convention, and according to tradition, the person who receives the gift money should give back some gift or money. However, some people do not actively return the gift, which leads to a lot of controversy and disputes.
1. Etiquette is the consensus of people
The woman's behavior of asking for the gift money in return has caused a lot of controversy in the society. On the one hand, it is generally believed that gift money is an act of giving, based on the interaction and blessing between relatives and friends, and is neither forced nor demanded. On the other hand, courtesy exchange is a traditional custom of the Chinese, and anyone who receives help and care from others will be grateful and hope to give back some gifts or money at the right time. Therefore, the practice of a woman asking for a gift money in return is not acceptable to most people.
2. The contradiction between gift money and monetization
With the development of society and people's pursuit of material things, gift money has gradually become a transaction, strengthening the trend of monetization. Some people, after receiving the gift money, do not see it as a blessing and love, but as a material benefit, considering the value and quantity. This utilitarian mentality makes the exchange of gifts gradually lose its essential meaning, and also leads to the phenomenon that some people are not active enough to return gifts.
3. The legal issue of whether the gift money can be returned
As for the legal issue of whether the gift money can be returned, the lawyer said that he does not support unwarranted recovery. Gifts are generally considered irrevocable in law, unless there is fraud, coercion, or other illegal elements. As long as the money is given voluntarily in the absence of these factors, the law generally does not support the claim for the recovery of the money. Therefore, before considering the recovery of the bonus money, there are various factors to weigh and be aware of the possible social and legal consequences.
Recently, some young people have begun to rectify the Sui Li and no longer blindly follow traditional customs. They believe that the gift should be a blessing and love from the heart, and should not be a monetary transaction. Some people choose to make it clear in their circle of friends that they do not participate in the gift, or express their blessings through other ways to avoid ineffective social and financial pressure.
Rectifying the money does not mean rejecting the human touch, but rejecting the monetization of the favor. Young people want to express their blessings in more ways, such as carefully selected gifts, helping each other, etc., to make people more humane. Some couples also choose to refuse to accept gifts, and even hold simple weddings, taking the initiative to block most of the gift money.
The practice of rectifying the money has been supported by some netizens, who believe that emotions are not measured by the amount of gift money, but rather focus on the exchange of sincerity and feelings. They want to put the maintenance of interpersonal relationships in their daily lives, so that every meeting becomes a two-way rush, and do not base emotional communication on money.
In short, for the recovery of Sui Li, it is necessary to comprehensively consider many factors such as traditional customs, interpersonal relationships, legal provisions and economic factors. The law generally does not support the recovery of gift money given to volunteers. However, the trend of rectifying the money has also triggered a rethinking of the custom of etiquette, making the human touch more real and harmonious in interpersonal interactions.
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