Marriage is becoming more and more free, and divorce is becoming more and more convenient. How can your marriage to him or her be secure? How do you have a high-quality intimate relationship?
Intimacy is the most test of a person's wisdom and emotional intelligence. The difference between men and women is even greater than the difference between humans and monkeys, how do two "species" with such a big difference need to be cultivated in order to be under one roof, and never get tired of seeing each other?
Wu Jikang's "Life is stumbling, we are steady" is a cultivation manual for high-quality intimate relationships.
Mr. Wu Jikang is the former deputy head of the positive education research center of the School of Social Sciences of Tsinghua University, and has been engaged in the popularization and promotion of positive psychology, and now focuses on the field of marriage and family. His new work "The Days Are Staggering, We Are Steady" focuses on the field of intimate relationships with the concept of positive psychology.
Family affection is based on blood relationship, and the common life of raising and being raised is the basis, and it is naturally established. Intimate relationships are different, they belong to acquired grafting, glue bonding, and are prone to rejection and degumming accidents. Because there is no blood relationship to guarantee whether you love or not, and there is no law to compel, you need to be more cautious and careful not to cross the thunder pool.
Mr. Wu's book has an overall situation and details in the field of marriage and family. You can overlook the whole map of intimacy, there are mountains and rivers, there are excellent scenery, and there are also undercurrents surging, and there are minefields that must not be touched. It can be said that with a book in hand, life is worry-free. At the same time, there are also specific problems and examples, most of which will be encountered in intimate relationships sooner or later, such as feeling the difference between people and tools, the difference between who cooks and who washes dishes, the balance between work and family, the consideration of accompanying friends or lovers, the division of desires and responsibilities, etc., will be presented in the book one by one, and point out the maze, so that people can read it like an enlightenment.
If you are in love or about to enter into a relationship and marriage, then this book is the most suitable for you, but everything is foreseen, and the methods in the book that you read early and practice in life will make you unconsciously have a higher quality of intimacy. If you're struggling in an intimate relationship, exhausted, and in a dilemma, this book can also clear the fog and guide you. If you have passed the light wind of seeing mountains as mountains, mountains as mountains, and mountains as mountains, reading this book will make you laugh and sigh that this is so.