Everyone says that the most difficult relationship in the world is "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", but who knows that mother-in-law and son-in-law are not easy to get along with.
I have an only daughter who was in college and had a boyfriend in Shandong who has two brothers at home. At that time, our whole family was against them.
My wife has a leg disability and can't do heavy work, and my father, who is nearly 80 years old, also lives with us.
* A hardship allowance of several hundred yuan per month is given to the disabled husband. My family relied on me to open a grain and oil store, and the business was good.
In particular, my father also showed up to his daughter to list the benefits of being by her parents' side, saying that her parents are old, and she will take care of the baby after marriage, so we can take care of each other.
Seeing that we resolutely disagreed with their dealings, the boy promised to settle down in Sichuan and look for a job here.
In order to keep my daughter by my side, I used my old business background in the city to look at a four-room house, paid the down payment, and asked them to pay off the mortgage by themselves.
After they got married, no one had to take the baby, so I could only sell the store and take my old father's family of 6 to live together for four generations.
When my youngest grandson was two years old, my daughter was admitted to the civil service, went to work in a small town, and came back once a weekend.
My daughter was not at home, and I suddenly felt that there was a lack of communication bridge at home. He basically doesn't talk to us except for teasing the children
We don't speak Mandarin, and our son-in-law sounds like we're having a hard time talking. Sometimes, if you ask him to buy something and come back, he can't understand it, so I have to run it myself.
When my daughter is at home, she will take the initiative to pay me the living expenses on a monthly basis. Now that my son-in-law doesn't take the initiative, it's hard for me to ask him.
Every time my daughter comes back and is in a hurry, it is inevitable that she will forget. I don't want to ask, so I can only take out some of my pension money and paste it upside down.
For this reason, my wife and I lost our temper, and I could only swallow my anger. Just a few people, born to me and born to me, all live together, if you care too much, you will inevitably bump into each other.
Who knows, my wife didn't understand, so in a fit of anger, she went back to her hometown in the countryside and spent it with his parents and brothers.
Today, I saw that my little grandson had a cough for a few days and did not get better, so I boiled him some rock sugar pear water. As soon as the water boiled, the child pulled into his pants.
I was so busy changing my child's pants, washing his buttocks, washing his pants that I forgot about the pot.
Maybe the son-in-law smelled it, so he came to the kitchen, and I saw him taking pictures through the glass, and he was gesturing on his mobile phone.
Seeing that the fire on the stove was not yet connected, and there was green smoke coming from the pot, I dropped what I was holding, threw myself into the kitchen, and turned off the fire.
I was secretly glad in my heart, and my daughter's ** called: "Mom, what are you doing, burn the pot like that?" If you buy something good at home, you can really break it, you should be careful! If Zhou Liang didn't find out, wouldn't it be dangerous. ”
This grievance in my heart: You can't say that listening to what your husband says is what it is! Knowing that he is like a door-to-door son-in-law, you two are in love, I have always been afraid of wronging him, but I can't wronged your mother like this, right?
Looking at my dad sitting in the living room watching TV, and looking at my little grandson playing on the side, I wiped my tears and silently cleaned up the mess in the kitchen.
I didn't expect that the son-in-law who smelled the smell would not turn off the stove first when he walked into the kitchen, but secretly sent a ** photo to my daughter.
My daughter was indiscriminate, and she told me about it.
It suddenly occurred to me that my son-in-law is not a person who looks so simple, and he is very scheming. Fortunately, we stopped it, if my daughter really married them, I don't know what kind of grievances she will suffer!
However, I don't understand what he is doing this.