In Shenzhen, Zou Yijun experienced the death of her father and the cheating of her husband in just two months, and her life became extremely miserable. However, this is only the beginning of her misfortune, and a man-made catastrophe caused by family affection and interests awaits her.
This disaster made Zou Yijun, who had not yet reached her prime, make an astonishing decision, she gave up a comfortable life and chose to become a nun. So, what exactly did she go through?
On his way to the cemetery to sweep his father's grave, Zou Yijun was stopped by a group of people claiming to be public security. It stands to reason that the public security should wear ** and show relevant documents when on duty.
But these people in front of them not only didn't wear **, but they didn't even have decent documents. This made Zou Yijun feel that something was wrong, but the second brother and mother on the side seemed calm and comfortable, and even said that they would cooperate with the ** action.
Although Zou Yijun felt inexplicable, she was helplessly handcuffed and coerced into a police car. Then, something unexpected happened ...... her
Zou Yijun turned to his second brother and mother for help, but they treated her indifferently and even stood on the side of the police to help control her. She couldn't understand why her family didn't help her, she didn't know where the car was going, and she didn't know that her fate was about to take a huge turn.
After a long drive, the car finally stopped, and through the window, Zou Yijun saw the signboard of "Guangzhou Baiyun Psychological Hospital". It was only then that she realized that she had been forcibly sent to a psychiatric hospital, which was known to the locals.
In order to regain his freedom and safety, Zou Yijun fought hard, but a weak woman was no match for a few strong men after all, and she was quickly put into the examination room.
Zou Yijun lost control of his emotions and frantically wanted to escape, crying: "I'm not sick, let me out, I want to see my family." "Years of medical experience made the doctor see at a glance that Zou Yijun was a typical manic patient.
The doctor said bluntly: "We are based on your family's entrustment to ** your condition, and I hope you can cooperate with our work, so that you can recover as soon as possible and be discharged from the hospital as soon as possible." ”
Hearing these words, Zou Yijun felt as if he had been struck by lightning, his brain went blank, and he stopped crying in an instant. Her body trembled uncontrollably and sat down on the ground.
The entrustment of the family, the entrustment of the family, Zou Yijun repeatedly recited the doctor's words in his mouth. It turned out that all this was premeditated, no wonder the second brother and his mother were indifferent to their arrest, and even helped the other party control themselves.
Zou Yijun thought at first that the second brother and her mother were forced to obey each other because they were afraid, but later she realized that they were the culprits. ** Helping her to sit in a chair, the doctor looked through her case and recorded in detail the family's description of her condition.
The family said that since her divorce, she has been emotionally unstable and often threatens to commit suicide. Based on the family's description and on-site observations, the doctor believed that Zou Yijun suffered from bipolar disorder, a complex mental illness that includes two symptoms, bipolar disorder and depression, which occur alternately, usually with intermittent periods in between.
During the intermittent period, the patient is no different from the normal person. In bipolar disorder, the patient is hyperactive and emotionally high, while in depression, the situation is quite the opposite.
Zou Yijun resolutely did not accept the result of being misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder, and became emotional and questioned the doctor's conclusions. However, in the doctor's opinion, these agitated emotions were the manifestation of her bipolar symptoms.
In order to control her agitation, **injected her with tranquilizers, and soon she fell asleep. Meanwhile, her mother and second brother were waiting for the doctor's diagnosis in the next office.
After listening to the doctor's feedback, they felt relieved and immediately went through the procedures for her to be admitted to the hospital, and asked the hospital to prohibit visits from anyone other than family members. To ensure her safety, they also paid an extra fee for the hospital to provide her with round-the-clock special care.
Guangzhou Baiyun Psychological Hospital provides ** services to patients from all over the country, including about 150 seriously ill patients, only a few dozen of whom require 24-hour care.
Ms. Zou's condition was not serious, but her family's insistence on special care surprised doctors. Still, doctors understood the family's concerns, probably fearing that she would commit suicide.
After the formalities were completed, the family left immediately and did not visit Zou Yijun. Soon, Zou Yijun woke up from his slumber and found himself in an empty ward, with iron windows and doors locked, and a sense of fear arose.
She had only one thought: get out.
In a psychiatric hospital, how do you make others think they are normal? Perhaps, adjusting to hospital life and following the doctor's advice is the best strategy. At the beginning, Zou Yijun was immersed in grief and didn't understand this truth, but just ** every day, hoping to impress the hospital.
Obviously, this behavior will only make the situation worse. In order to make her obedient, the hospital gave her an electric shock**. Electric shock** is a technique in which an electric current is passed through the body, creating a burning sensation and pain.
After experiencing the electric shock, Zou Yijun understood that crying will only make things worse, and if you want to succeed, you must stay calm, let the people around you let down their guard, and then look for opportunities to act.
Zou Yijun felt that he was under all-weather surveillance, and it was difficult for one person to escape. She realized she needed to find a rescuer to help her. After careful consideration, a name jumped into her heart, and that was Huang Xuetao.
Huang Xuetao, a well-known lawyer in Guangzhou, was asked by Zou Yijun to draw up a power of attorney for his donation. Because they had contact with Zou Yi at work, the two got along happily and soon became close friends.
Zou Yijun firmly believed in Huang Xuetao's character and decided to ask him for help. Since the last electric shock, Zou Yijun has become very quiet and obedient, and both the doctor and ** thought that the electric shock had worked, so they relaxed their vigilance against her.
Once, when Zou Yijun went to the toilet, he borrowed a mobile phone from the patient's family and called Huang Xuetao.
* After connecting, Zou Yijun couldn't wait to describe the current predicament to Huang Xuetao, hoping to get help as soon as possible. Huang Xuetao couldn't believe that Zou Yijun's family had treated her so unfairly, and he immediately said that he would do his best to help her.
So with the assistance of Huang Xuetao, can Zou Yijun successfully escape from the psychiatric hospital? After hanging up**, Huang Xuetao immediately left for Guangzhou Baiyun Psychological Hospital, hoping to see Zou Yijun with his own eyes.
To his surprise, however, the hospital denied him a visit, citing that only the patient's family could enter. Obviously, neither Zou Yijun nor Huang Xuetao knew about it.
Although he was very worried about Zou Yijun's condition, Huang Xuetao could only temporarily return home to find other solutions because he could not break into the psychiatric hospital.
After much deliberation, Huang Xuetao was very confused about how to solve this problem. His colleague suggested that he seek help from ** to get more attention from people.
Huang Xuetao felt that this suggestion was very reasonable, so he began to write an article about his thoughts and understanding, and sent it to "Nanfang*** When Nanfang *** received this article, they immediately arranged to publish it on the front page, which attracted widespread attention from the society.
With the fermentation of this matter, all walks of life began to pay attention to Zou Yijun's matter. In the face of huge social pressure, the hospital could only ask Zou Yijun's family for help, hoping that they could take Zou Yijun home as soon as possible to calm the situation.
However, Zou Yijun's family felt very helpless about this, and they could only go to the hospital to pick Zou Yijun home. After meeting her family, Zou Yijun was so angry that she asked why they had sent her to a psychiatric hospital and said that she would file a lawsuit with the court.
The mother apologized in a panic and sincerely explained that she was worried that she would have an accident if she was emotionally unstable, so she took it upon herself to send her to a mental hospital, all for her own good.
Her father's face softened Zou Yijun's heart, but she couldn't let go of her painful experience in a mental hospital. In this moment of pain and conflict, she decided to get a good night's rest and then think carefully about whether she should forgive her family.
After lying down, her thoughts drifted back to the past, bits and pieces from childhood to adulthood welled up in her heart, and tears blurred her vision. In 1979, she was born in a large family in Huizhou City, Guangdong Province, with two older sisters and one older brother.
When I was a child, my family moved to Shenzhen because of my father's job transfer.
Zou Yijun was born in a family, and her mother gave birth to her after a day and a night of painful struggles due to difficult childbirth. However, the mother was deeply influenced by the patriarchal mentality, and was always cold and indifferent to her three daughters, especially Zou Yijun, who was extremely disgusted.
Every time there was an unforeseen circumstance that day, her mother would vent all her dissatisfaction and anger on Zou Yijun and punch and kick her. The elder brothers and sisters also discovered their mother's dislike for their little sister, so they also began to imitate their mother's behavior and target Zou Yijun everywhere.
Although Zou Yijun felt the love from his father at home, his father rarely had time to spend with his children because of his busy work. However, Zou Yijun is very smart, diligent and studious, and is the material for learning.
The father once said that if his daughter can be successfully admitted to university, he will give her a house worth 1.5 million as a reward. Although life is full of hardships and challenges, Zou Yijun has not given up, she has always persevered, because she knows that only through her own efforts can she change her destiny.
After years of hard study and hard work, she lived up to expectations and was successfully admitted to South China Normal University, majoring in economic management, which is the best reward for her efforts.
Her father did not break his promise and bought her a house, and although her mother was puzzled by this, she still respected her father's decision. During college, she joined the club, where she met her first boyfriend, and the two fell in love at first sight, and they were a fairy couple in everyone's eyes.
However, when she brought her boyfriend home, and her mother learned that her boyfriend was from an ordinary family and was from another country, her face immediately became ugly and she firmly opposed them being together. Because of their mother's opposition, the relationship between the two began to crack, and they finally had no choice but to break up.
Zou Yijun has not been in a relationship again in the past few years, which makes her father very worried. He asked people to introduce him everywhere, hoping to find a suitable partner for his daughter as soon as possible.
Finally, in 2005, he found a satisfactory blind date for his daughter. However, the father's happy days did not last long. One day, he suddenly fainted while cleaning at home, and was rushed to the hospital and found to have terminal cancer.
The news sent the whole family into deep grief. In order to save her father, her mother searched for remedies everywhere, and even found a charlatan. He suggested that Chongxi should be used to get rid of his father's illness, and his mother felt that this method was feasible, so she immediately found her daughter Zou Yijun, hoping that she could marry her boyfriend as soon as possible.
The father knew that his time was short, and the last thing he could let go of in his heart was the young daughter who was not married. He hoped to be able to personally hold her hand and send her to get married.
Although he has not been with his boyfriend for a long time, Zou Yijun still decided to get married as soon as possible for the sake of his father's physical condition. The man is also very eager to get married, so he fully supports this.
Soon, the preparations for the wedding were ready, and Zou Yijun tied the knot with her boyfriend. The father died shortly after his daughter got married, and whenever he thought of him, Zou Yijun couldn't help but cry.
Out of concern for her family relationship, she chose to forgive. However, this decision has put her in trouble again. It turned out that Zou's mother's apology was only temporary, and she had already contacted another psychiatric hospital.
Zou's mother repeated her old tricks, making Zou Yijun a mental patient again. So, why did Zou's mother go against her daughter's wishes, and even send her daughter to a psychiatric hospital at the expense of crossing the bottom line of the law?
It all started after my father died.
After the death of Zou Yijun's father, she fell into a deep grief and could not extricate herself. However, her husband constantly complained about her when she needed comfort the most, which strained their marital relationship.
What made Zou Yijun even more unacceptable was that only a month after getting married, she found out that her husband was having an affair with another woman and frequently exchanged ambiguous text messages. When she tried to find an answer, her husband confessed to cheating and said he wanted a divorce.
This blow was undoubtedly a huge spiritual blow to Zou Yijun.
Zou Yijun's married life had twists and turns, and her husband's words made her feel painful, and finally the two decided to divorce and reached a consensus on divorce compensation of 300,000 yuan. After the divorce, in order to purify his soul and forget his pain, Zou Yijun chose to eat fast and recite Buddha, and decided to donate 200,000 yuan to the local Buddhist Association, and entrusted lawyer Huang Xuetao to write a power of attorney for donation.
However, this caused the dissatisfaction of Zou's mother, who believed that her daughter was divorced, and when she returned to the Zou family, she should keep and dispose of the property. But Zou Yijun insisted on his decision and did not accept his mother's opinion.
This made Zou's mother very angry, and finally after discussing with her son, she was imprisoned in a psychiatric hospital. However, Zou Yijun soon managed to escape from the mental hospital, and her property and real estate were not successfully seized by her mother.
She used her crooked brain again, and she did it again. To make sure nothing went wrong, she chose a more secretive, remote and heavily monitored hospital, Zhongshan Buhu Hospital.
Although Zou Yijun was overwhelmed, with her first experience, she firmly believed that she would definitely find a chance to escape. Finally one day, the ** who took care of her was unwell, and she had symptoms of vomiting and diarrhea, and relaxed her care.
This opportunity was not easy to come by, Zou Yijun made full use of it, borrowed ** from others on the grounds of going to the toilet, and asked Huang Xuetao for help. With the help of Huang Xuetao, she successfully called the police and escaped from the mental hospital.
However, Zou Yijun, who was deceived again, completely saw his mother's hypocrisy and decided to sue his mother and second brother so that they could get the punishment they deserved. This left an insurmountable gap in her relationship with her family.
After experiencing the pain of losing her father, divorce, and turning against her family, she saw through the red dust and became a monk in Hubei in 2007.
On March 2, 2009, the Guangzhou Baiyun District People's Court formally heard the case. Monks, with compassion in their hearts. Although the family apologized deeply and compensated more than 10,000 yuan, Zou Yijun still chose to forgive and did not send them to prison.
At this point, although the fate was unfortunate, he was relieved and found peace in Buddhism and what he pursued all his life, which was also the best result. Finally, we need to remember that mental illness is not an isolated case, and He Jinrong and Ji Shumao have also become mentally ill because they were mentally ill in Guangzhou and Xi'an.
The beautiful woman was forcibly sent to a psychiatric hospital and cut her hair for a nun after being discharged