When I returned to my hometown, I was pleasantly surprisedRuralThere has been a huge change. The muddy paths that used to be have been replaced by wide roads, and rainy days no longer make people feel the embarrassment of muddy feet. Even more pleasing was the construction of one next to the original middle schoolEntertainmentPlaza, which also has fitness equipment. VillagerslifeIt is no longer limited to the problem of food and clothing, but has been promoted to a higher level. However, withlifeWith the improvement of the level, some new problems have also quietly emerged. Especially in 40-70 years oldMiddle-aged and elderlyAmong people, there are three major evils that have begun to spread and have a bad influence on them. These three evils are not limited to themRuralIt is also prevalent in cities.
Next, I will go into detail about these three evils and share what I am working onRuraland real-life cases found in the city.
To my surprise, the dancing becameRuralMiddle-aged and elderlyOne of the main peopleEntertainmentActivity. Every day at dusk, aunts and uncles come to the small square on time to find their dance partners and perform ballroom dances such as chacha, waltz, and tango. What's even more surprising is that these partners have a fixed relationship, and they also have their own different costumes. It is said that ballroom dancing requires the cultivation of a tacit understanding, and once a dance partner is identified, it is rarely easily replaced. This would have been a good thing, but there are some people who are addicted to dancing and don't care about anything else. Uncle Wang in the village is a typical example, he is 50 years old this year, and at first he only learned to dance in his spare time, but he did not expect to fall deeper and deeper. Except for going home for dinner, he spends almost every day with his dance partner. Over time, he began to be critical of his wife, disgusted that she was not in good shape, did not dress up, and looked rustic. During the busy farming season, he was even more lazy to help with the housework, and complained that his wife delayed his practice when cooking for him. Family conflicts are escalating, often quarreling, and even on the verge of divorce.
The original intention of dancing was to enrich the villagersCulturelife, however, backfired, and became a harm.
RuralNowadays, mobile phones are also abundant, and almost every household has a broadband Internet installed. The advent of the Internet has really given peoplelifeIt has brought a lot of convenience, online shopping, express delivery and other services to facilitate the daily life of the villagerslife。However, the *** brought by mobile phones is also becoming more and more obvious. Couples are talking less and less and more often, and most of the day is occupied by mobile phones. They either swipe short**, or chat with the anchor, and even tip in order to interact with the anchor, which spends a lot of money. There is also a such example in my village, where someone rewarded more than 30,000 yuan in the live broadcast, and in order to cover up this fact, he quietly saved a large amount of money. However, the secret was discovered during the Chinese New Year, and finally the village committee was troubled, and the director did a series of work for this purpose, including writing a guarantee letter and checking mobile phones regularly, before the incident was barely quelled.
In the past, it was considered okay to receive money for marriage, childbirth, and funerals. It is a traditional custom for people to give gifts to each other, which embodies mutual aid and friendship. Today, however, the practice has become rampant. Even the family members of the deceased will take the initiative to collect money when relatives and friends come to pay their respects. Although these families did not inform the people around them, when people found out that a loved one had passed away, they would take the initiative to help, because in their hometown, they could not go out to buy things after the death of their own family, and everything had to rely on the help of their fellow villagers. In the past, this kind of information was passed on by word of mouth, but now it only takes one ** to let everyone know. Therefore, people will send money as a sign of mourning. This is understandable, but what is even more outrageous is that someone actually opened the examUniversityA new era of gift money! Many parents begin to arrange banquets and celebrate with great fanfare after their children's college entrance examination results. Even if you don't know which one your child has been admittedUniversityThey have already received a tuition fee, and some of them have passed wellUniversity, firecrackers will be set off at the banquet, and a sum will be charged again"Remuneration"！This change makes me feel a little out of step with the times, is it a coincidence?SocialWhat about the depravity of the morals?
By returning to my hometown, I'm rightRuralThe three major evils have a deeper understanding. Excessive dancing, excessive use of mobile phones, and the rampant habit of collecting money are not just these problemsRural, also all over the city. They are important for familiesSocialThere were adverse effects.
In my opinion, behind these three evils is actually the excessive pursuit of spiritual needs, and people's desire to enrich themselveslife, but did not find the right way and balance. Excessive dancing escalates family strife, excessive use of mobile phones leads to reduced communication between people, and bad habits of receiving gifts and money are rampantSocialThe atmosphere is degenerate. ForRuralWe should have a positive attitude, but at the same time, we should also be vigilant against the emergence of some undesirable phenomena. In pursuitEntertainmentand abundantlifeAt the same time, we should pay attention to moderation and maintain good family relationships andSocialConcept. Only then,RuralOnly then can development truly benefit the people and bring about all-round progress and happiness.